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95TurboDC2 · 07-14-2007, 01:37 PM

so iv been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks now. weve hooked up a couple times and whatever. nothing big. last night she came out with us to hang out for alittle before she went to her friends house in philly that she hasnt seen in awhile. so she leaves and she asks me if im walking to her car with her and i say no. just didnt like feel like moving after being at work all day. so she leaves and its whatever. she texted me later that night and asked y i didnt call her or text her. (mind you i had work at 530 this morning) i told her that i didnt want to take her away from the time that she was hanging out with people she hasnt seen in awhile. she says that she text me because she wanted to talk to me and blah blah blah. she calls me at 330 in the morning balling her eyes out. i asked her what was wrong and she wouldnt tell me anything and kept saying ill tell u tomorrow. (as in today) so i told her that i wasnt going to go to her school with her for the night if she didnt tell me cause i was worried that something happened. still wouldnt tell me so i hung up on her and tried to go back to sleep. she calls back and tells me all of the sudden everything is fine. i was like alright whatever i have work in 2 hours i need to sleep. did i do something wrong?? i know were not going out so i dont see why not calling or texting her was such a big deal. anyone got any input on this?? what should i do??

CHAOS · 07-14-2007, 01:41 PM

sounds like a case of WTF? ... i wouldve done the same thing man... sorta lol i prolly wouldve walked her to the car ... but i dont think my opinion is valid because i always think the worst. ie. her hooking up with someone and crying her outs and not wanting to tell you.

ITSTOCK · 07-14-2007, 01:45 PM

It's a girl. They are all crazy. They are always right.

This means that yes, you were wrong. Don't sweat it.

agoodall · 07-14-2007, 01:54 PM

you f***ed up playa, doesnt matter what or how, but you messed it all up....(total sarcasm)

drew · 07-14-2007, 01:55 PM

reminds me of those joke i just read on entensity:

HER DIARY

Tonight I thought he was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment.

Conversation wasn't flowing so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed but he kept quiet and absent. I asked him what was wrong; he said nothing. I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry. On the way home I told him that I loved him, he simply smiled and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior; I don't know why he didn't say, "I love you too."

When we got home I felt as if I had lost him, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched T.V. He seemed distant and absent. Finally, I decided to go to bed. About 10 minutes later he came to bed, and to my surprise he responded to my caress and we made love, but I still felt that he was distracted and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep - I cried.

I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.

HIS DIARY

Today the Giants lost, but at least I got laid.

CobaltGrl · 07-14-2007, 02:54 PM

she was crying because

a. she wanted attention
b. she hooked up with another guy....because she wanted attention.

good luck.

drew · 07-14-2007, 03:06 PM

or

c. right before she called you the first time she stubbed her toe and was in pain, but she got an ice pack everything was fine when she called you back

personally i think it's c or a combination of a & c were she somehow stubbed her toe while having sex with someone else ( perhapse a straddling while rolling gone wrong? )

italianblaze · 07-14-2007, 03:33 PM

i think she really liked you then got all drunk and sloppy and got sloppy wit some dude got upset she did it then called u cryin cuz she thought u werent intrested because she wasnt gettin attention or whatever cobalt girl is rite but i dono if shed cry over jus hookin up wit another dude if you guys arent exclusive either that or shes 100% f'n psyco and in either case id say find another girl unless your 100% sure she didnt smash

MissDSM · 07-14-2007, 03:42 PM

She could have just been on her period, or just emotional in general, and thought you not walking her to her car and not texting/calling her meant you didn't want to talk to her... or maybe that you weren't thinking about her. Idk.. but if that was the case, she probably felt dumb after you explained why, and just didnt want to tell you at the time that all she was crying about was that you didnt call/text/walk her to her car.

And when you hung up on her, either A, she thought you were being a dick (hanging up on her) and realized you werent worth crying over. Or B, you hung up on her and she had a minute to calm down and realize she was crying over nothing.

Idk, but this random emo crying ordeal is probably a nice preview of what a relationship with her is like.

teh DIRT · 07-14-2007, 05:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ITSTOCK

It's a girl. They are all crazy. They are always right.

This means that yes, you were wrong. Don't sweat it.

hahahaha.

MissDSM · 07-14-2007, 05:06 PM

Pete knows the deal, lol

blu4door · 07-15-2007, 10:42 AM

Sounds like you need to start hanging out with girls that are more mature.

Nors · 07-15-2007, 10:45 AM

Glad I am out of highschool geez

ThePrimerSuspect · 07-15-2007, 11:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by blu4door

Sounds like you need to start hanging out with girls that are more mature.

they exist?!?!?!?! you're kidding, right????????

zerioustt · 07-15-2007, 11:30 AM

drama...but next time walk her to the car man. was it really that much to ask?

zerioustt · 07-15-2007, 11:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThePrimerSuspect

they exist?!?!?!?! you're kidding, right????????

they exist, i am lucky enough to have found one.

NOPSTNS · 07-15-2007, 11:53 AM

drew i loved that diary thing man, thats so tru......

Quote:

Originally Posted by MissDSM

Idk, but this random emo crying ordeal is probably a nice preview of what a relationship with her is like.

bingo.........

james_ls · 07-15-2007, 12:28 PM

It's a good preview of what to come.

Keep in mind...

If you've got a dong...your ALWAYS wrong.

95TurboDC2 · 07-15-2007, 03:16 PM

her period was last week. so i know it wasnt that. shes just giving some mixed ass signals and im not sure what the hell to do. oh well ill see what happens

99SL2_Modder · 07-15-2007, 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 95TurboDC2

her period was last week. so i know it wasnt that. shes just giving some mixed ass signals and im not sure what the hell to do. oh well ill see what happens

Dude, if she's giving you ass signals in the first place, get away! That bitch must have one FUNKY bowel...and if it's mixed? Wow dude. Just....wow.

07-14-2007, 01:37 PM	#1
95TurboDC2 Tri-State Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: lansdale Member #2472 My Ride: 06 civic si iTrader: (0)	was i wrong?? (kinda long) so iv been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks now. weve hooked up a couple times and whatever. nothing big. last night she came out with us to hang out for alittle before she went to her friends house in philly that she hasnt seen in awhile. so she leaves and she asks me if im walking to her car with her and i say no. just didnt like feel like moving after being at work all day. so she leaves and its whatever. she texted me later that night and asked y i didnt call her or text her. (mind you i had work at 530 this morning) i told her that i didnt want to take her away from the time that she was hanging out with people she hasnt seen in awhile. she says that she text me because she wanted to talk to me and blah blah blah. she calls me at 330 in the morning balling her eyes out. i asked her what was wrong and she wouldnt tell me anything and kept saying ill tell u tomorrow. (as in today) so i told her that i wasnt going to go to her school with her for the night if she didnt tell me cause i was worried that something happened. still wouldnt tell me so i hung up on her and tried to go back to sleep. she calls back and tells me all of the sudden everything is fine. i was like alright whatever i have work in 2 hours i need to sleep. did i do something wrong?? i know were not going out so i dont see why not calling or texting her was such a big deal. anyone got any input on this?? what should i do??

07-14-2007, 01:55 PM	#5
drew Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Broomall, PA Member #2617 My Ride: fuzion & exploder iTrader: (8)	reminds me of those joke i just read on entensity: HER DIARY Tonight I thought he was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment. Conversation wasn't flowing so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed but he kept quiet and absent. I asked him what was wrong; he said nothing. I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry. On the way home I told him that I loved him, he simply smiled and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior; I don't know why he didn't say, "I love you too." When we got home I felt as if I had lost him, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched T.V. He seemed distant and absent. Finally, I decided to go to bed. About 10 minutes later he came to bed, and to my surprise he responded to my caress and we made love, but I still felt that he was distracted and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep - I cried. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster. HIS DIARY Today the Giants lost, but at least I got laid. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures.

07-14-2007, 03:06 PM	#7
drew Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Broomall, PA Member #2617 My Ride: fuzion & exploder iTrader: (8)	or c. right before she called you the first time she stubbed her toe and was in pain, but she got an ice pack everything was fine when she called you back personally i think it's c or a combination of a & c were she somehow stubbed her toe while having sex with someone else ( perhapse a straddling while rolling gone wrong? ) __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures.

07-14-2007, 03:33 PM	#8
italianblaze Tri-State Addict Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Warminster Member #2973 My Ride: 2007 Ford F-150 Supercrew XLT 5.4 iTrader: (0)	i think she really liked you then got all drunk and sloppy and got sloppy wit some dude got upset she did it then called u cryin cuz she thought u werent intrested because she wasnt gettin attention or whatever cobalt girl is rite but i dono if shed cry over jus hookin up wit another dude if you guys arent exclusive either that or shes 100% f'n psyco and in either case id say find another girl unless your 100% sure she didnt smash __________________ 2007 Ford F-150 SuperCrew 5,4L XLT 91 Laser Rs-T Build - on the back burner To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures.

07-14-2007, 03:42 PM	#9
MissDSM Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Newark, DE Member #2277 My Ride: 97 GSX iTrader: (1)	She could have just been on her period, or just emotional in general, and thought you not walking her to her car and not texting/calling her meant you didn't want to talk to her... or maybe that you weren't thinking about her. Idk.. but if that was the case, she probably felt dumb after you explained why, and just didnt want to tell you at the time that all she was crying about was that you didnt call/text/walk her to her car. And when you hung up on her, either A, she thought you were being a dick (hanging up on her) and realized you werent worth crying over. Or B, you hung up on her and she had a minute to calm down and realize she was crying over nothing. Idk, but this random emo crying ordeal is probably a nice preview of what a relationship with her is like. __________________ Formerly MissDSM->MissS2K->MissDSM To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures. 1997 Eclipse GSX For Sale To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures. 04-05 STi under $20k WTB

07-14-2007, 01:41 PM	#2
CHAOS TST Ruined My Life! Banned Join Date: Jun 2006 Member #2120 My Ride: 1984 Cadillac Brougham iTrader: (1)	sounds like a case of WTF? ... i wouldve done the same thing man... sorta lol i prolly wouldve walked her to the car ... but i dont think my opinion is valid because i always think the worst. ie. her hooking up with someone and crying her outs and not wanting to tell you.

07-14-2007, 01:45 PM	#3
ITSTOCK Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Sep 2005 Member #844 iTrader: (0)	It's a girl. They are all crazy. They are always right. This means that yes, you were wrong. Don't sweat it.

07-14-2007, 05:06 PM	#11
MissDSM Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Newark, DE Member #2277 My Ride: 97 GSX iTrader: (1)	Pete knows the deal, lol __________________ Formerly MissDSM->MissS2K->MissDSM To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures. 1997 Eclipse GSX For Sale To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures. 04-05 STi under $20k WTB

07-15-2007, 10:42 AM	#12
blu4door Tri-State Aficionado Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: trenton Member #504 My Ride: 1979 ford econoline van iTrader: (0)	Sounds like you need to start hanging out with girls that are more mature.

07-15-2007, 10:45 AM	#13
Nors Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: DelCo, PA Member #2210 My Ride: 2011 VW GTI iTrader: (1)	Glad I am out of highschool geez __________________ DUB JAWN Hi Hater™ Previous: 2002 Volkswagen GTi - Sold \|1995 Honda Accord - Sold \| 1993 Eagle Talon Tsi AWD Project - Sold \| 1996 Acura Integra RS - Sold

07-15-2007, 12:28 PM	#18
james_ls TST Ruined My Life! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Warrington Member #1614 My Ride: 1998 Acura Integra LS//VTEC iTrader: (0)	It's a good preview of what to come. Keep in mind... If you've got a dong...your ALWAYS wrong. __________________ *Heller Dope* - When the ** is doper than Hellen Keller; it's Heller Dope To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures. BUY MY STUFF!** To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures.

07-15-2007, 03:16 PM	#19
95TurboDC2 Tri-State Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: lansdale Member #2472 My Ride: 06 civic si iTrader: (0)	her period was last week. so i know it wasnt that. shes just giving some mixed ass signals and im not sure what the hell to do. oh well ill see what happens

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