stupid girls-warning: thread not to be taken so seriously

[Scapegoat]

So I got a nice letter signed by the department wishing me luck. very nice, wasn't expecting it.

Anyway, the one chick here who is decent looking here and always flirting with me decided to put "<3 always" before signing her name... now, I know she's got the hots for me. I've never really flirted back, just been myself..which is just generally flirty. She knows I have a g/f. Now, obviously I'm gonna comment on the card and show my girlfriend cause I've got no reason to lie about it...

but she's gonna see that heart and then I have to explain that this chick has the hots for me blah blah blah. tonight will be interesting... you'd think a girl would realize not to put a "<3 always" on a card of a man with a girlfriend he lives with...

thank god she didn't put her number on there...

not to mention the temp employee giving me a card and brownie herself with her myspace and e-mail on the card... the card isn't making it home... lol

[mr_eh]

do they know you drive a pos neon?

[sleepersatty99]

lol looks like someone is on the couch tonight. lol just kidding and good luck with tonight keep us posted as to how it was handled

[OMGz Turbo]

lol nice work

[Scapegoat]

haha, they love my car here... go figure

[zerioustt]

One of two ways to do this.

1. Don't take the card home

2. Take it home and deal with it.


I'm glad my fiance isn't jealous, its a heart who cares honestly, you could be reading into it wrong. Girls are GENERALLY nice, and maybe she doesn't see it as "omg I wanna bang you and make you my bf". If your girls does get jealous tell her piece out!

[Brazen06]

Originally Posted by zerioustt

One of two ways to do this.

1. Don't take the card home

2. Take it home and deal with it.


I'm glad my fiance isn't jealous, its a heart who cares honestly, you could be reading into it wrong. Girls are GENERALLY nice, and maybe she doesn't see it as "omg I wanna bang you and make you my bf". If your girls does get jealous tell her piece out!

X2 maybe she was just being nice...i still wouldnt take the card home though

[Scapegoat]

Originally Posted by sleepersatty99

lol looks like someone is on the couch tonight. lol just kidding and good luck with tonight keep us posted as to how it was handled

she'll handle it well enough. She's been cheated on in her past relationship, so the red flags are gonna go straight up "because a girl doesn't just sign "<3 always" for no reason"

The bad part is, this chick manages a youth soccer program for the city and they want a website at some point...so I'm trying to get that job, and my g/f knows this.

[sleepersatty99]

hmm well i would be honest about the whole thing. cause i know if you try and hid it or sugar coat it. it only makes thing worse. and the flags will go up but i think things will work out

[Scapegoat]

Originally Posted by zerioustt

One of two ways to do this.

1. Don't take the card home

2. Take it home and deal with it.


I'm glad my fiance isn't jealous, its a heart who cares honestly, you could be reading into it wrong. Girls are GENERALLY nice, and maybe she doesn't see it as "omg I wanna bang you and make you my bf". If your girls does get jealous tell her piece out!

no, she wants my junk...

she's jokingly said I sexually haress her and makes innuendo's towards me where I haven't heard her say anything to the other guys in the office. I'm pretty stupid when it comes to chicks flirting with me, so says my girlfriend, but I'm not blind, lol.

[Scapegoat]

Originally Posted by sleepersatty99

hmm well i would be honest about the whole thing. cause i know if you try and hid it or sugar coat it. it only makes thing worse. and the flags will go up but i think things will work out

I agree completly. I just don't want my girlfriend breaking this chicks neck if they ever meet.... I can't keep a rugby player back... lol

[zerioustt]

Originally Posted by Scapegoat

she'll handle it well enough. She's been cheated on in her past relationship, so the red flags are gonna go straight up "because a girl doesn't just sign "<3 always" for no reason"

The bad part is, this chick manages a youth soccer program for the city and they want a website at some point...so I'm trying to get that job, and my g/f knows this.

They do sign <3 for a reason, its called being a chick. A lot of guys have no idea if a chick is hitting on them or not. I'm gonna assume she's being nice.

As long as you didn't cheat on her you should have any problems, that's my take on it. My fiance's ex cheated on her, she doesn't hold it over my head. Its called trust if she didn't have I wouldn't be with her...end of story.

[Scapegoat]

Originally Posted by zerioustt

They do sign <3 for a reason, its called being a chick. A lot of guys have no idea if a chick is hitting on them or not. I'm gonna assume she's being nice.

As long as you didn't cheat on her you should have any problems, that's my take on it. My fiance's ex cheated on her, she doesn't hold it over my head. Its called trust if she didn't have I wouldn't be with her...end of story.

everyones different though. I love my girlfriend, even though she has trust issues. But those trust issues are the reason she is not a fiance. I won't marry someone that won't trust me 100%.

That being said, my girlfriend does trust me "enough" that I don't believe this will be any kind of huge issue. More like a little "what's she mean by this?"

I'm sure the intention was only to be nice. But I have no doubt she's interested in me. She's asked leading questions and basically threw out an invite for me to ask her out.

Trust me, I may not be able to take subtle hints... but I can see the big picture

[Broken5hift]

why would you bring the card home? unless im missing man rule #1 or something

[turbo4g63]

Originally Posted by mr_eh

do they know you drive a pos neon?

hahahahahaha lol

[SexyDSM95]

It's not cheating if you are in a different zip code....

[zerioustt]

Originally Posted by Scapegoat

everyones different though. I love my girlfriend, even though she has trust issues. But those trust issues are the reason she is not a fiance. I won't marry someone that won't trust me 100%.

That being said, my girlfriend does trust me "enough" that I don't believe this will be any kind of huge issue. More like a little "what's she mean by this?"

I'm sure the intention was only to be nice. But I have no doubt she's interested in me. She's asked leading questions and basically threw out an invite for me to ask her out.

Trust me, I may not be able to take subtle hints... but I can see the big picture

Love is blind and confusing at times, and no offense why would you stay with someone who you're not gonna make you're fiance? I mean its your life...just a question. Reminds me of a song. "I'm an addict for dramatics I confuse the two for love"

[SexyDSM95]

Originally Posted by zerioustt

Love is blind and confusing at times, and no offense why would you stay with someone who you're not gonna make you're fiance? I mean its your life...just a question. Reminds me of a song. "I'm an addict for dramatics I confuse the two for love"

Okay Taking Back Sunday chillax...let him do what he wants whether it makes him happy now or later...

[Scapegoat]

Originally Posted by zerioustt

Love is blind and confusing at times, and no offense why would you stay with someone who you're not gonna make you're fiance? I mean its your life...just a question. Reminds me of a song. "I'm an addict for dramatics I confuse the two for love"

I love her, we get along great, we live together and we've got long term plans together. I don't NOT see her as my wife. It's really not as bad as this thread makes it seem to be.

She doesn't accuse me of anything, doesn't stalk me to make sure I'm being a good boy.

Because I love her as much as I do, I'm willing and able to work with her on resolving any trust issues she has due to her ex having cheated.

This thread was mainly supposed to be funny. My girlfriend isn't gonna be upset, she just gonna be wondering if she has to protect me from the big bad girlies flirting with me

[Njsurfrgurl]

Dont bring that ish home- you show the GF she'll be like ok dont want you talking to her so thus putting the job you want in limbo- i had to deal with the same problem before- a friend of the bf's roommate liked him and made advances- she wouldnt say a word to me and was pretty ignorant- so i made it known that if she did it again i would beat the living piss out of her...she moved back home 2 weeks later needless to say- what your gf doesnt know the better- if you have no intentions then its meaningless-rip shred and burn...end of story