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redwrxwagon02 · 07-31-2007, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by letsRACE

what about her email address? as SexyDSM said before, she gets penis enlarging adds all the time. Ask to look at her email. Just show her that it happens no matter what. If she doesnt have one, then make a new one and within a week it will be full of porn and ****.

As for the Bi-polar, that must be rough. I dont know how i would be able to deal with that. I think you got some balls and some mad love for the girl to put up with that.

anyway, good luck with this.

thats what i told her
she gets spam all the time

*edit* she doesnt get spam cuz her dad blocks all other IP's from their router they have a very tough firewall

and thanks but im just patient
very very very very patient

SexyDSM95 · 07-31-2007, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by redwrxwagon02

thats what i told her
she gets spam all the time

and thanks but im just patient
very very very very patient

Pretty soon your patience will turn into utter annoyance. It only takes time before someone cracks and from the sounds of things it will be you. Sorry to be so harsh but I like spoiling the endings.

And if he blocks IP's, then how does she get ANY e-mails at all? That makes no sense, because if I were to e-mail her then it would automatically be blocked. No way he can know my exact IP without me giving it to him, especially considering I am on a network.

redwrxwagon02 · 07-31-2007, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by SexyDSM95

Pretty soon your patience will turn into utter annoyance. It only takes time before someone cracks and from the sounds of things it will be you. Sorry to be so harsh but I like spoiling the endings.

And if he blocks IP's, then how does she get ANY e-mails at all? That makes no sense, because if I were to e-mail her then it would automatically be blocked. No way he can know my exact IP without me giving it to him, especially considering I am on a network.

right he only lets the family email each other she cant get any outside emails and yeah i know its me who's gonna break like i always do cuz i let people walk all over me

markley02 · 07-31-2007, 10:46 AM

I have had the same e-mail address for years and I do not get any spam in it. She needs to calm down and trust you. At no point should she be comparing you to an ex. It doesn't matter how much you like or "love" someone if things just aren't going to work.

P.S. what does it even matter if you do look at porn. I have. Hell, you cant tell me that a guy fitting his head up there isn't entertaining. Or a girl making an 18 incher dissappear.

SexyDSM95 · 07-31-2007, 10:49 AM

Oh yea...did anyone say for you to tell her yet. "Better I look and whack it to porn then have sex with other women". As twisted as that sounds...that's comforting to me personally. I would rather have a boyfriend stay home and flog his log to porn then go out and sleep with whomever else.

redwrxwagon02 · 07-31-2007, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by SexyDSM95

Oh yea...did anyone say for you to tell her yet. "Better I look and whack it to porn then have sex with other women". As twisted as that sounds...that's comforting to me personally. I would rather have a boyfriend stay home and flog his log to porn then go out and sleep with whomever else.

true but i really dont like that stuff it never interested me or got me off to me it always furthur pushed the degredation of women except for the ones who like doing that stuff

SexyDSM95 · 07-31-2007, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by redwrxwagon02

true but i really dont like that stuff it never interested me or got me off to me it always furthur pushed the degredation of women except for the ones who like doing that stuff

Have you ever thought of becoming a h*mosexual..and a liberal? j/k

redwrxwagon02 · 07-31-2007, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by SexyDSM95

Have you ever thought of becoming a h*mosexual..and a liberal? j/k

lol no thanks

Buster · 07-31-2007, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by redwrxwagon02

true but i really don't like that stuff it never interested me or got me off to me it always further pushed the degradation of women except for the ones who like doing that stuff

I know how you feel, I was raised by my mom and mom only until i was 16. Even though my mother is very very laid back and okay with basically everything, she always taught me that girls are not what you see in porn and not to expect what you see. It gives you a better appreciation for what you do have I think

redwrxwagon02 · 07-31-2007, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Buster

I know how you feel, I was raised by my mom and mom only until i was 16. Even though my mother is very very laid back and okay with basically everything, she always taught me that girls are not what you see in porn and not to expect what you see. It gives you a better appreciation for what you do have I think

exactly i was raised by my grandparents and my mom and they taught me to respect women and that they're not toys to be used and abused......... idk anymore now she says she cant forgive me because apparently i was lying when i said i dont look at porn but i wasn't . i might give up and i might not idk what to do

Buster · 07-31-2007, 11:31 AM

Then the best thing to say to her is do you want it to be over or do you want to "try" and trust me. Otherwise she can have her using lying other boyfriends, it just sucks when it gets to that point. Maybe space is what she needs. Tell her to talk to you when shes ready again and you will be waiting.

redwrxwagon02 · 07-31-2007, 11:37 AM

grrrrrrr i hate having emotions sometimes

Snoozie · 07-31-2007, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by redwrxwagon02

grrrrrrr i hate having emotions sometimes

try being a girl.

redwrxwagon02 · 07-31-2007, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by BluMeanie

try being a girl.

note worthy

Scapegoat · 07-31-2007, 12:00 PM

all girls are bi-polar when they're on their period

redwrxwagon02 · 07-31-2007, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Scapegoat

all girls are bi-polar when they're on their period

a generalization i wish was true

italianblaze · 07-31-2007, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by redwrxwagon02

ok so last night i was hanging out with my gf
and i went to check my email cuz im waiting for an email from and ebay guy
so i go into yahoo and i havent checked it in like idk 5 or 6 months

and well its all porn spam which pisses me off
and im not one for porn at all no lie but she thinks iv subscribed to all these emails because it has my email address in the email

no matter what i say she doesnt believe me and idk what to do
iv never lied to her about anything
im an honest guy i really am

she just cant seem to believe that i really didnt subscribe for porn emails
i really really really wanna be with this girl
shes everything iv ever looked for in a gf

if i didnt feel so strongly about her i wouldnt be so troubled over this
shes on the verge of breaking up with me
idk how to repair this any help is much obliged please help

you gota turn her out man
like i did my girl even likes to watch porn now along with othr fun things
on a serious note
i dont think she should get so madd about this i mean whose email hasnt got flooded with penis enlargement free crazy sex emails ? i mean seriously
but Good luck if she dont get over it

andru1313 · 07-31-2007, 01:29 PM

Well I know first hand that if she is truly bi - polar it is impossible to control that without medication. It will be a difficult road for you and you will be dealing with many levels of frustration. And the worst is you will start to think it is your fault when most of the time it is due to her illness. You can be supportive and try and be there but she should be medicated and in some sort of counseling. As Sandy said you will eventually want off the roller coaster and my end up doubting who you are and start taking away good qualities that you may posses. If you want PM me I know alot about Bi-polar...

redwrxwagon02 · 07-31-2007, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by andru1313

Well I know first hand that if she is truly bi - polar it is impossible to control that without medication. It will be a difficult road for you and you will be dealing with many levels of frustration. And the worst is you will start to think it is your fault when most of the time it is due to her illness. You can be supportive and try and be there but she should be medicated and in some sort of counseling. As Sandy said you will eventually want off the roller coaster and my end up doubting who you are and start taking away good qualities that you may posses. If you want PM me I know alot about Bi-polar...

i have seen her on the meds she takes them sometimes but idk she has actually gotten it down to try and control it

zerioustt · 07-31-2007, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by SexyDSM95

Oh yea...did anyone say for you to tell her yet. "Better I look and whack it to porn then have sex with other women". As twisted as that sounds...that's comforting to me personally. I would rather have a boyfriend stay home and flog his log to porn then go out and sleep with whomever else.

You're a smart one...any smart guy would snag you up.

Smart girls who treat you right are the ones you treat right. Why should one person in the relationship be giving all they have while the other gets to act like dr jekal and mrs hyde? Why because she has past issues? People find excuses for anything to act crappy. Just like black people who complain about slavery who don't know crap about it, nor were enslaved. Leave the crazy girls behind!!!!

07-31-2007, 10:46 AM	#44
markley02 Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Mommy and Daddy’s House Member #390 My Ride: 05 Honda Odessey iTrader: (0)	I have had the same e-mail address for years and I do not get any spam in it. She needs to calm down and trust you. At no point should she be comparing you to an ex. It doesn't matter how much you like or "love" someone if things just aren't going to work. P.S. what does it even matter if you do look at porn. I have. Hell, you cant tell me that a guy fitting his head up there isn't entertaining. Or a girl making an 18 incher dissappear. __________________ Pwned Dumb ass for not changing my password. I lied about everything. All of it. I owned some great cars because my ex wife dedicated her life to me. I treated her like total sh, because my dk was more important in a back door than she was! She divorced me, and I deserved it! I am into drugs and Motorcycles, guns and especially my bff Brandon To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures. and girls that look just like my mother Pronouns: they, them. hyper-sexual narcissist. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures.

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Buster TST Ruined My Life! Join Date: May 2005 Location: Holland Pa Member #449 My Ride: 2008 Mustang GT/CS iTrader: (3)	Then the best thing to say to her is do you want it to be over or do you want to "try" and trust me. Otherwise she can have her using lying other boyfriends, it just sucks when it gets to that point. Maybe space is what she needs. Tell her to talk to you when shes ready again and you will be waiting. __________________ III To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures.

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SexyDSM95 Tri-State Post Whore Banned Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Glenside, PA Member #188 iTrader: (1)	Oh yea...did anyone say for you to tell her yet. "Better I look and whack it to porn then have sex with other women". As twisted as that sounds...that's comforting to me personally. I would rather have a boyfriend stay home and flog his log to porn then go out and sleep with whomever else.

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Scapegoat TST Ruined My Life! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: stop looking at my gold Member #1208 iTrader: (1)	all girls are bi-polar when they're on their period

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andru1313 Tri-State Aficionado Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: with my true love or my Garage which ever is warmer Member #717 My Ride: 2004 VW R32/2006 WW Evo IX MR iTrader: (1)	Well I know first hand that if she is truly bi - polar it is impossible to control that without medication. It will be a difficult road for you and you will be dealing with many levels of frustration. And the worst is you will start to think it is your fault when most of the time it is due to her illness. You can be supportive and try and be there but she should be medicated and in some sort of counseling. As Sandy said you will eventually want off the roller coaster and my end up doubting who you are and start taking away good qualities that you may posses. If you want PM me I know alot about Bi-polar...