Neverending problems.

[Broken5hift]

Originally Posted by Scapegoat

Obviously, I disagree

It takes so much effort keeping ones own life in order and trying to make the most out of the ONE you get, that fixing someone elses life who CHOSE to make those bad decisions is a waste of time, IMHO.

She chose to do drugs, she chose to leave with that guy that beat her azz, she chose to leave someone that could, and would, help her. She chose. Not you. You tried, you gave it the effort, on more than one occasion, and went WELL out of your way to "rescue" the broad. What has it gotten you? Her cokehead bf knows where you live, that isn't good. You have her Aunt trying to push her off on you, that is obvious. She's got no control over the girl and is unable to help her herself.

You owe this girl NOTHING. You've already done more than a lot of people would, myself included...10 hour drive, no thank you. Molested at a bar? whatever... with her drug history, she's only putting herself in the line of fire by going to a bar. She should CHOOSE to stay away from places like that, places where there are drugs and alcohol, she needs to CHOOSE to stop, to get help, and to get clean.

I have absolutly NO room in my life for druggies. Pot is one thing, I can compromise on that. Anything else. you're g-o-n-e. The chick I'm seeing now is around pot due to her roommates, and I'm sure she does it, whatever. The moment I hear, or see, her doing anything harder within the time that we've been dating, she's getting left behind.

what most people dont remember is your a product of your enviroment. im not saying it wasnt her choice to take drugs and all that other great stuff. im just saying people who have hard up bringings or a tough family life mixed with bad friends giving you bad advice and decisions will lead anyone down a dark path. thankfully most of us had a decent upbringing and parents to help us make the right choices, it sounds like that girl didnt. your reasoning to leave her where she is, is the reason she's still there. if that kid wants to help her out he should, cause he might be the only one to offer her a real chance at giving herself her life back.

[Broken5hift]

Originally Posted by Scapegoat

You miss the part where he said "nothing happened"

Why bang a crack skank?

that was a joke. ive been gone too long i see

[Broken5hift]

Originally Posted by SexyDSM95

I'd rather sleep outside kthxbai

your dinner tastes like poop anyways

[SexyDSM95]

Originally Posted by Broken5hift

what most people dont remember is your a product of your enviroment. im not saying it wasnt her choice to take drugs and all that other great stuff. im just saying people who have hard up bringings or a tough family life mixed with bad friends giving you bad advice and decisions will lead anyone down a dark path. thankfully most of us had a decent upbringing and parents to help us make the right choices, it sounds like that girl didnt. your reasoning to leave her where she is, is the reason she's still there. if that kid wants to help her out he should, cause he might be the only one to offer her a real chance at giving herself her life back.

I'd have to agree to disagree. I was once down a very dark path and had a very good parents. I chose my path due to my enviroment not my friends/family.

Originally Posted by Broken5hift

your dinner tastes like poop anyways

Only because I know you would eat it.

[Broken5hift]

Originally Posted by broken5hift

what most people dont remember is your a product of your enviroment. im not saying it wasnt her choice to take drugs and all that other great stuff. im just saying people who have hard up bringings or a tough family life mixed with bad friends giving you bad advice and decisions will lead anyone down a dark path. thankfully most of us had a decent upbringing and parents to help us make the right choices, it sounds like that girl didnt. your reasoning to leave her where she is, is the reason she's still there. if that kid wants to help her out he should, cause he might be the only one to offer her a real chance at giving herself her life back.

Originally Posted by sexydsm95

I'd have to agree to disagree. I was once down a very dark path and had a very good parents. I chose my path due to my enviroment not my friends/family.

i didnt say it had to be both, it only takes one thing to screw you up. but look at what the girl has, no parents, a drug addicted ex boyfriend stalker and really nothing else to look upto. all im saying is give the girl a chance to make something of herself instead of labeling her a lost cause.

[Broken5hift]

no one can just drop all their bad habits when the chance is presented. it takes time and hard work. you cant just expect someone to drop the only security in their life they have over someone they barely really know. but just the same being able to help someone do that would be a satisfying moment in your life, especially if you get a good friend or a girlfriend out of it

[SexyDSM95]

Originally Posted by Broken5hift

i didnt say it had to be both, it only takes one thing to screw you up. but look at what the girl has, no parents, a drug addicted ex boyfriend stalker and really nothing else to look upto. all im saying is give the girl a chance to make something of herself instead of labeling her a lost cause.

IMHO I think he was giving this girl a chance both times he picked her cracked out ass up. I would say her leaving with her ex even though he was caught in a bold faced lie was her chance.

[Broken5hift]

Originally Posted by SexyDSM95

IMHO I think he was giving this girl a chance both times he picked her cracked out ass up. I would say her leaving with her ex even though he was caught in a bold faced lie was her chance.

well think of it this way. ex boyfriend is familiar and something she knows, new guy = what happens is i stick with him and he ends up hating me, then i have nothing.

its a tough decision for her, maybe she just needs to know he wont judge her like she fears he will. the guy seems like a nice guy from what he posted so far. i think he could prove to her she doesnt need that ****

[Scapegoat]

he's a "nice guy"

its over

[SexyDSM95]

OOOOo ok Dr. Phil

[Broken5hift]

Originally Posted by SexyDSM95

OOOOo ok Dr. Phil

LMAO. if you dont listen to me its cause your a self centered idiot. more after these commercials. buy my book.

[MPowerKai]

I once helped out my friend who was going down the wrong path and now she's clean. Her family is greatful for my help and now we are the best of friends.

Yes, I am an idiot who likes to help people just to help them

[Drftpretty]

First off, I just read my entire post and it is pretty hard to follow. I need to appologize for trying to post between patients lol.

Im done with her.