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Scapegoat · 07-27-2009, 02:00 PM

i'm looking to settle down, but i'm not going to just settle. I don't want to play games, but i'm not putting my eggs in a single basket for a few months only to figure out i can't stand someone... which is generally what i've done...

Oakes · 07-27-2009, 02:03 PM

Yeah, ive been juggling a few girls at a time for the last 2 1/2 years or so, I'm done with all of them officially...as in there is an understanding between themselves and me that we're no longer meaninglessly hooking up. I'm at a point where I'd like just one again. Shocking, I know.

crazyduckme · 07-27-2009, 02:14 PM

Wow. Guys can be pigs.

Try the one girl thing. Girls tend to like that more.

doug · 07-27-2009, 02:16 PM

Oakes · 07-27-2009, 02:17 PM

and girls can be sluts, you think guys are the only ones who try the multi-interest gig? I know quite a few girls who are more "free hearted" than I have ever been lol. It's a two way street

DPancoast · 07-27-2009, 02:17 PM

So glad I don't have to deal with that anymore lol. Being happy rules

Erik · 07-27-2009, 02:17 PM

<-- never cheated.

but i have messed with several girls at one time while not being in a relationship. although the last girl i met, since i met her, i focused on just her and ditched the rest. now we are dating and its going well.

crazyduckme · 07-27-2009, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by DPancoast

So glad I don't have to deal with that anymore lol. Being happy rules

I concur

Yay!!!

I read my bf's texts the other night (he usually lets me but he hid one from me) and it said "I hope this one marries me bc she's perfect with my family".

BIG AWWWW!!!!

crazyduckme · 07-27-2009, 02:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oakes

and girls can be sluts, you think guys are the only ones who try the multi-interest gig? I know quite a few girls who are more "free hearted" than I have ever been lol. It's a two way street

Oh, I'm not saying girls can't be the same way... but it's the "norm" for a guy to do it. I don't have many girl friends... but the ones I was friends with in college were very much "free hearted".

Oakes · 07-27-2009, 02:20 PM

Talk about gay, lol

I've never cheated in a relationship, I can honestly say that. However, if there is no relationship, consider me doing whatever the hell I want.

Erik · 07-27-2009, 02:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oakes

Talk about gay, lol

I've never cheated in a relationship, I can honestly say that. However, if there is no relationship, consider me doing whatever the hell I want.

troof.

but even if i find someone i like but not in a relationship, ill stop searching or whatever.

as for a girl being compatible with the family, thats just as important in my opinion as being compatible with me

Oakes · 07-27-2009, 02:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by crazyduckme

Oh, I'm not saying girls can't be the same way... but it's the "norm" for a guy to do it. I don't have many girl friends... but the ones I was friends with in college were very much "free hearted".

Don't be mistaken, a lot of guys like to "pretend" they do it cause they think its cool. People were usually shocked to find that I had been seeing 2-4 girls at a time, unless you really know me and it was normal for ME. I know plenty of guys who say they have, or attempted to, and have failed miserably and repeatedly. It's really not all that common in technical terms.

Oakes · 07-27-2009, 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by crazyduckme

Oh, I'm not saying girls can't be the same way... but it's the "norm" for a guy to do it. I don't have many girl friends... but the ones I was friends with in college were very much "free hearted".

Can you honestly tell me you've never been free hearted yourself?

crazyduckme · 07-27-2009, 02:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oakes

Can you honestly tell me you've never been free hearted yourself?

Last summer I was kind of a bad girl... but it only lasted about a month (or less) and then realized it was stupid and I was only being used by scumbags so I stopped...

Then found my wonderful boyfriend, who I love very much.... and will be with him till the day I die.

Scapegoat · 07-27-2009, 02:27 PM

there is nothing wrong with looking around and dating multiple people as long as there is honesty in that happening. I'm not willing to settle down with a chick after 2 dates either... and i don't see why at this point i should remove my focus on other women if they are out there.

I'm not sure i want to date this chick in a serious manner yet, i'm certainly not giving up on other possible dates that may end up being a serious relationship

Oakes · 07-27-2009, 02:28 PM

*yawn*

Good story, can you tell it again?

Scapegoat · 07-27-2009, 02:30 PM

i could, but you wouldn't hear me

crazyduckme · 07-27-2009, 02:32 PM

I love stories.

phate1229 · 07-27-2009, 02:33 PM

Oakes · 07-27-2009, 02:34 PM

I meant crazyduckme's story, not your's Ken.

07-27-2009, 02:03 PM	#40822
Oakes Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: West Chester Member #4384 My Ride: 2010 Mercedes Benz E63 AMG iTrader: (0)	Yeah, ive been juggling a few girls at a time for the last 2 1/2 years or so, I'm done with all of them officially...as in there is an understanding between themselves and me that we're no longer meaninglessly hooking up. I'm at a point where I'd like just one again. Shocking, I know. __________________ Team Oakes: I dont give a ****!

07-27-2009, 02:17 PM	#40825
Oakes Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: West Chester Member #4384 My Ride: 2010 Mercedes Benz E63 AMG iTrader: (0)	and girls can be sluts, you think guys are the only ones who try the multi-interest gig? I know quite a few girls who are more "free hearted" than I have ever been lol. It's a two way street __________________ Team Oakes: I dont give a ****!

07-27-2009, 02:17 PM	#40827
Erik Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: May 2006 Location: Glenside, PA Member #1962 My Ride: 2001 Audi A6 2.7 Twin Turbo iTrader: (4)	<-- never cheated. but i have messed with several girls at one time while not being in a relationship. although the last girl i met, since i met her, i focused on just her and ditched the rest. now we are dating and its going well. __________________ --Eric '96 Mazda Miata \| FM V-Maxx Coilovers \| Jackson Racing Exhaust/Intake GONE To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures. 01' Audi A6 2.7 Twin Turbo \| Daily \| NoMods

07-27-2009, 02:20 PM	#40830
Oakes Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: West Chester Member #4384 My Ride: 2010 Mercedes Benz E63 AMG iTrader: (0)	Talk about gay, lol I've never cheated in a relationship, I can honestly say that. However, if there is no relationship, consider me doing whatever the hell I want. __________________ Team Oakes: I dont give a ****!

07-27-2009, 02:28 PM	#40836
Oakes Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: West Chester Member #4384 My Ride: 2010 Mercedes Benz E63 AMG iTrader: (0)	yawn Good story, can you tell it again? __________________ Team Oakes: I dont give a ****!

07-27-2009, 02:00 PM	#40821
Scapegoat TST Ruined My Life! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: stop looking at my gold Member #1208 iTrader: (1)	i'm looking to settle down, but i'm not going to just settle. I don't want to play games, but i'm not putting my eggs in a single basket for a few months only to figure out i can't stand someone... which is generally what i've done...

07-27-2009, 02:16 PM	#40824
doug Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: May 2005 Location: Springfield, PA Member #450 My Ride: 2007 WRX STi Limited, 1969 Z/28 Camaro iTrader: (1)

07-27-2009, 02:27 PM	#40835
Scapegoat TST Ruined My Life! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: stop looking at my gold Member #1208 iTrader: (1)	there is nothing wrong with looking around and dating multiple people as long as there is honesty in that happening. I'm not willing to settle down with a chick after 2 dates either... and i don't see why at this point i should remove my focus on other women if they are out there. I'm not sure i want to date this chick in a serious manner yet, i'm certainly not giving up on other possible dates that may end up being a serious relationship

07-27-2009, 02:30 PM	#40837
Scapegoat TST Ruined My Life! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: stop looking at my gold Member #1208 iTrader: (1)	i could, but you wouldn't hear me

07-27-2009, 02:34 PM	#40840
Oakes Tri-State Post Whore Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: West Chester Member #4384 My Ride: 2010 Mercedes Benz E63 AMG iTrader: (0)	I meant crazyduckme's story, not your's Ken. __________________ Team Oakes: I dont give a ****!

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