How To Respond to the I Have A Man Excuse

[06SS/SC ALL DAY]

This is for you guys who have trouble...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PTYgVm8Wl3Y

[fitftw]

I'm simply not that persistent/energetic. Would be good tips if I wasn't too lazy for all that. If she says she has a man, I say okay, and maybe I ask if we can be friends. If not, oh well life goes on.

[DPancoast]

I agree on persistence but that dude is retarded lol

[SovXietday]

Can I have my 2 minutes back?

[Proven]

I hope no one in here takes that dudes advice seriously. If a girl/women says she's got a boyfriend walk away, she doesn't like you OR has a boyfriend. Also show respect to her man and yourself by not trying to act like you just want to be friends now.

[Fujito]

Originally Posted by Proven

I hope no one in here takes that dudes advice seriously. If a girl/women says she's got a boyfriend walk away, she doesn't like you OR has a boyfriend. Also show respect to her man and yourself by not trying to act like you just want to be friends now.

If her boyfriend is my friend then I will respect that. If he's a stranger then I don't really care. Everyone's looking to upgrade every now and then. So many relationships out there are comfortable. The initial spark and chemistry pass, so if the two do not truly share a common interest or goal then their relationship will become dull, and they'll stick together because it's easy and comfortable.

So, with that mindset, if you do come across a girl who you really connect with then it's your loss to walk away because she has a boyfriend. Imagine if you meet a woman and everything just clicks. You have the same hobbies, interests, and the physical attraction is obviously there. What if she gives you her number, but when you push to go out she says she should have told you that she has a boyfriend? Do you stop there?

I'm not advocating cheating. But people are much more likely to leave an unsatisfactory relationship when they know that they have an option waiting for them. It's not right to assume that a girl who says that she has a boyfriend is in a bad boring relationship, but it's also your loss to assume that she isn't.

With that said, I personally don't pursue girls who have boyfriends. It takes too much effort, so unless the girl is really worth it I'm not going to bother and I will walk away. Actually I will give them my number anyway and tell them to call me if things don't work out depending on the conversation and chemistry prior to her saying that line. But I'm used to getting rejected at the bars or clubs like 2-3 times a night. If you approach 5 girls and get 2 dates then that's a win in my book.

[vdcoff]

Originally Posted by Fujito

If her boyfriend is my friend then I will respect that. If he's a stranger then I don't really care. Everyone's looking to upgrade every now and then. So many relationships out there are comfortable. The initial spark and chemistry pass, so if the two do not truly share a common interest or goal then their relationship will become dull, and they'll stick together because it's easy and comfortable.

So, with that mindset, if you do come across a girl who you really connect with then it's your loss to walk away because she has a boyfriend. Imagine if you meet a woman and everything just clicks. You have the same hobbies, interests, and the physical attraction is obviously there. What if she gives you her number, but when you push to go out she says she should have told you that she has a boyfriend? Do you stop there?

I'm not advocating cheating. But people are much more likely to leave an unsatisfactory relationship when they know that they have an option waiting for them. It's not right to assume that a girl who says that she has a boyfriend is in a bad boring relationship, but it's also your loss to assume that she isn't.

With that said, I personally don't pursue girls who have boyfriends. It takes too much effort, so unless the girl is really worth it I'm not going to bother and I will walk away. Actually I will give them my number anyway and tell them to call me if things don't work out depending on the conversation and chemistry prior to her saying that line. But I'm used to getting rejected at the bars or clubs like 2-3 times a night. If you approach 5 girls and get 2 dates then that's a win in my book.

haha I love that theory. I always thought if you approach 5 to 10 girls in a single night, odds are one of them will be interested, if not more than one of them

[DPancoast]

Fujito for president

[SovXietday]

It's all about the numbers. The more girls you talk to, the more girls you will go on dates with. Kind of like fishing, only with sex.

[Proven]

Originally Posted by Fujito

If her boyfriend is my friend then I will respect that. If he's a stranger then I don't really care. Everyone's looking to upgrade every now and then. So many relationships out there are comfortable. The initial spark and chemistry pass, so if the two do not truly share a common interest or goal then their relationship will become dull, and they'll stick together because it's easy and comfortable.

So, with that mindset, if you do come across a girl who you really connect with then it's your loss to walk away because she has a boyfriend. Imagine if you meet a woman and everything just clicks. You have the same hobbies, interests, and the physical attraction is obviously there. What if she gives you her number, but when you push to go out she says she should have told you that she has a boyfriend? Do you stop there?

I'm not advocating cheating. But people are much more likely to leave an unsatisfactory relationship when they know that they have an option waiting for them. It's not right to assume that a girl who says that she has a boyfriend is in a bad boring relationship, but it's also your loss to assume that she isn't.

With that said, I personally don't pursue girls who have boyfriends. It takes too much effort, so unless the girl is really worth it I'm not going to bother and I will walk away. Actually I will give them my number anyway and tell them to call me if things don't work out depending on the conversation and chemistry prior to her saying that line. But I'm used to getting rejected at the bars or clubs like 2-3 times a night. If you approach 5 girls and get 2 dates then that's a win in my book.

No matter how you try to justify it if a girl has a boyfriend whether its a friend of yours or not you should show respect, period. EVERY relationship comes to an idle and to pray on girls possibly in one at idle just for a date is pathetic, sorry man, its true, unless of course you only think of yourself or need a date really bad.

[ThePrimerSuspect]

Originally Posted by Proven

No matter how you try to justify it if a girl has a boyfriend whether its a friend of yours or not you should show respect, period. EVERY relationship comes to an idle and to pray on girls possibly in one at idle just for a date is pathetic, sorry man, its true, unless of course you only think of yourself or need a date really bad.

I say **** him. He would do it to your girl. Its better when they actually do have a man, he handles the relationship, you get the sex. Its a win for you, **** him.

[06SS/SC ALL DAY]

hahaaahahaaa http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hps8CFmP6tY

[~Brian~]

^hahahahaha

[Fujito]

Originally Posted by Proven

No matter how you try to justify it if a girl has a boyfriend whether its a friend of yours or not you should show respect, period. EVERY relationship comes to an idle and to pray on girls possibly in one at idle just for a date is pathetic, sorry man, its true, unless of course you only think of yourself or need a date really bad.

Prey on girls? Pathetic? lol. Respect for what? I respect a man when he can hold onto his girl despite any obstacles.

Anyway, shortly after I posted earlier I texted one of the girls that I told to "call me when you break up".

So it turns out she just broke up with her boyfriend. I just got home from hanging out with her and things went well to say the least.

[fitftw]

no one is ever happy for long in their relationships. People are designed to get bored. There's no pussy like new pussy. The same can be said for girls about dicks. I'll never get married or have children. Why settle? I'd rather be alone.

[jesus_ralliart]

Wow... I gotta say fujito.... usually im all for the funny stuff you write but I really hope you reconsider your philosophy...

Take for instance, if you get a girlfriend or wife one day and every guy she meets hits on her and tells her to call/text him if it doesn't work out. And 10/10 times your relationship is strong enough.... until you guys have a massive fight over something and she decides to have a little "alone" time away from you. however, in reality, she goes off and meets up with that really nice guy from two weeks ago

just saying, karma is a bitch.

[fitftw]

^ she (or he) is going to do that regardless. As I said, people get bored and are constantly seeking excitement/adventure. People cheat. One person in the relationship always has the upper hand. The person who cares less. 70% divorce rate in this country. That is over 50%. Leads me to believe hey, monogamy just doesn't work anymore, and really never did. Cavemen used to club women on the head and drag them by the hair back to the cave and have wild sex with their unconscious bodies. Then toss them out and find a new woman. People think I'm crazy to not have a passenger seat in my only car, and I tell them, I save money, I have no drama in my life, and I'm perfectly content without a romantic love interest.

[Proven]

Originally Posted by jesus_ralliart

Wow... I gotta say fujito.... usually im all for the funny stuff you write but I really hope you reconsider your philosophy...

Take for instance, if you get a girlfriend or wife one day and every guy she meets hits on her and tells her to call/text him if it doesn't work out. And 10/10 times your relationship is strong enough.... until you guys have a massive fight over something and she decides to have a little "alone" time away from you. however, in reality, she goes off and meets up with that really nice guy from two weeks ago

just saying, karma is a bitch.

I imagine he would be the type to be collecting numbers himself so this would be no big deal to him. It's actually very romantic, he's an upgrade.

[420sx]

I dont bother with girls with a bf. If she'll dump him for me, she'll do the same to me. If shes waiting for another guy to come along before leaving the one shes with, shes of no interest to me. I dont like fickle girls. I appreciate a girl who knows what she wants, and isnt tempted by other possibilities. If its that easy for you to walk away from a relationship, then it wasnt much of a relationship to begin with.

[jspek]

Originally Posted by 420sx

I dont bother with girls with a bf. If she'll dump him for me, she'll do the same to me. If shes waiting for another guy to come along before leaving the one shes with, shes of no interest to me. I dont like fickle girls. I appreciate a girl who knows what she wants, and isnt tempted by other possibilities. If its that easy for you to walk away from a relationship, then it wasnt much of a relationship to begin with.

i agree-ish.