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Originally Posted by poisonivory
u know i tend to agree with the beginning portion of that statement. When I first went to this meet, i knew one person outside of TST. I didnt just sit by my car (like a lot of newcomers do), i walked around and chit-chatted (or tried), and most of the regulars wouldnt give ya the time of day. The only person that spoke to me the first time i went was Mike (sleepersatty). We bull****ted for hours and were two of the last people there. he didnt know me from anyone, but he was cool as shyt.
The 2nd or 3rd time I went I went, Susie and Buster were very cool and didn't cast stones at the outsider..lol Other than that, I've tried to talk to various people and they just act like you're not cool enough for them. lol
So as stated above, I CAN see why people bring outsiders and kind of do their own thing. But by no means does that give them the right to be assholes. Hey, we were all "new" at some point, but most of us have good intentions. It's just a damn shame for those that don't.
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you're right, at some point everyone was new and went through exactly what you're going through now. Walk up, talk to people, and im sure people will then start remember your name, saying whats up, etc...
I'm not sure if I met you or not, but im not like that at all. I usually don't even talk to the regulars, they're all gay!