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Originally Posted by bastid
Easiest way to get someone back is to act as if you didn't want to get them back. She is expecting you to go above and beyond to "win her back," when trying to win her back is the stupidest thing you could try right now. Go out, have a good time, but don't pour on ANY emotion. Act indifferent to her. Go clean cut, wear a nice new set of clothing she hasn't seen before and show her that you are moving on and doing well for yourself.
The fact that you pay no mind to her romantically will wear on her, and she will wonder what the problem is. This will bring up all other sorts of psychological stuff. She'll wonder what you are doing, who you are seeing, why you aren't into her anymore. Then jealousy kicks in - maybe not right away - but soon enough.
Sounds to me like I'm too late in this post and you are in the progress of digging your own grave with this chick. Good luck nonetheless.
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i have neevr read anything more true than that....i was in the same prob as u about a yr ago, dated a girl for 3 years and she dumped me, did the whole 5 stages of grief BS and when ur thinkin to urself lets try again, its a horrible idea man....thank God u didnt go out with her today, id take bastids idea and run with it, wear somethin new, act like u dont give two ****s about her and when u leave, her head will be in circles tryin to figure out why u werent beggin for her to come back.....
women want what they cant have, if u thro urself at them they will just go looking for bigger fish.....ignore her