Went to Area1320 last night and had Ryan roll my rear fenders... and magically enough they are not rubbing any more (on the street at least). They were previously rubbing when I took an offramp at anything above the posted speed limit and also over every dip in the highway or big bump in the road, but no longer.
The tires are still sitting wider than the fenders are, but I guess for the distance the suspension compresses, I've got enough clearance now. Not sure if they'll rub when I auto-x but I'll find out soon enough.
I finally have the wheels back on my car and I'm happy again
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