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Originally Posted by Scapegoat
Obviously, I disagree
It takes so much effort keeping ones own life in order and trying to make the most out of the ONE you get, that fixing someone elses life who CHOSE to make those bad decisions is a waste of time, IMHO.
She chose to do drugs, she chose to leave with that guy that beat her azz, she chose to leave someone that could, and would, help her. She chose. Not you. You tried, you gave it the effort, on more than one occasion, and went WELL out of your way to "rescue" the broad. What has it gotten you? Her cokehead bf knows where you live, that isn't good. You have her Aunt trying to push her off on you, that is obvious. She's got no control over the girl and is unable to help her herself.
You owe this girl NOTHING. You've already done more than a lot of people would, myself included...10 hour drive, no thank you. Molested at a bar? whatever... with her drug history, she's only putting herself in the line of fire by going to a bar. She should CHOOSE to stay away from places like that, places where there are drugs and alcohol, she needs to CHOOSE to stop, to get help, and to get clean.
I have absolutly NO room in my life for druggies. Pot is one thing, I can compromise on that. Anything else. you're g-o-n-e. The chick I'm seeing now is around pot due to her roommates, and I'm sure she does it, whatever. The moment I hear, or see, her doing anything harder within the time that we've been dating, she's getting left behind.
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