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Originally Posted by Scapegoat

the biggest problem is you accepting the friend zone. there is nothing wrong with being friends with chicks, it leads to meeting other chicks. BUT if you're not interested in being friends with a chick make your feelings known. and i'm not talking about having a sit down and talking about your feelings like an emo homo.

ask them out on a date the first time you meet them. delaying that dumps you into the friend zone.

if you're already friends with a chick that you want to bang, pull away from the friendship and wait a few weeks/months. At this point your friendship really won't be one and you can be all like, "hey baby... we haven't seen each other in a while. lets go do blah blah blah together"

You really just have to put it out there that you are interested in them. If they say no then no biggy... you move on to the next.

Being more talkative helps too. I've noticed that when i go out and if i'm in a certain mood i won't be very talkative... in fact i probably look depressed because i'm chilling by myself while people are up and walking around and doing ****. no big deal, just be talkative to the people you do interact with, big smile and have fun.

Don't change who you are though b/c you think you'll get more pussy or whatever. Just work on a few things you seem to not like... you may be coming off as shy because you want to do something you're not comfortable enough to do. I have that issue in large groups myself unless i'm around my long time friends who know me as being a goof and saying stupid **** and flirting with girls.

this is longer than i expected... but i can say a lot on the subject cause i've been there. And while i'm not Rico Suave, i've learned a lot about my own personality and learned to be comfortable in whatever mood i'm in... whether its a talkative outgoing extroverted one or the opposite.

pfft ken i remember seeing you at the KT you nutball.