| angdefeo |
02-05-2010 02:16 PM |
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Originally Posted by ASIAN JUL
(Post 1641040)
thanks angelo, I like writing too, even if no one else reads or responds to it. Just don't like it when people act like I'm coming in here bitching about a broken nail or a bad hair day.
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Jul if you care about the replies....dont write here. For example if your writing about a situation that tweeked your nerves...then you read a reply that only makes you more tweeked, dont put it out here.
I wrote a really personal thing on a new thread a few months back. After i wrote it, i did not look at the replies. The act of writing was i needed. That released the tension. A week or so later i looked at the replies. If i would have read them a few hours after i posted the note i would have gotten more nervous.
So what i am trying to say is dont expect a different outcome here next time. It seems that everytime you share a stressful situation you only get more stressed by the comments. Dont repeat the cycle. I hate seeing you thinking and hoping for the best but then only getting the worst.
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