Don't stop talking about it. I like hearing opinions about it. Think about it this way with that kid who is paranoid. $5 says that girl is in her older teen years or around 20 years old and still is in that partying stage. She isn't mature most likely if in that stage, so if you look for something serious, why ****ing bother. You'll get a whole lot of baggage with it.

I wanted to tell both of the guys that their girl cheated on them with me, but I didn't want to be a dick. I was very close to though with the one girl. ****ing dumb bitches. While I've been in my relationship with my girlfriend for 9 months, I've had probably about 5 girls wanting me. I started to believe that saying, they want you when they can't have you.

lol at people who stay with someone because of a baby. Talk about being miserable when theres nothing there on top of it.

Get along enough to support the child and give it what they need, thats all that matters.

i have noticed that, when you got a g/f, chicks tend to talk to you more.

^ agreed since ive just started noticing this o_0.

it's probably because you're putting off more hormones since you're getting laid more often.

hmm i would agree with that.

Or because those girls are bitches and want to make your life hell with the girl you're with. Ever notice how they normally stop talking to you when your single again for the most part? They think they want you because they see how you treat the current girl and how you act when you're happy... Then they be you alone and realize it's not what they want...

Meesh, there was a girl I worked on for a year or so. She races at the same track as I do. I was very nice to her and what not, she had trust problems. Don't know why, but she did and was never talkative at all with me but with others. I did everything I could to make it work. No go. Then randomly she starts trusting me (not while I'm with a girl though) and was interested. I was finishing up school (in last semester) and was getting a lot of **** from my dad about finding a job. I said I'm not ready for it because I have so much **** going on. She started acting weird again. Then I asked if she wanted a relationship, she then wasn't sure. I met my girl now and after that happened, she blew up at me but now we are real good friends. I know, long and I don't know if that made sense.

i have noticed that before too lol

crap like that happens to me all the time. i'll be single and try, no girl wants to bother. as soon as i get serious with a girl, everyone wants to talk and chill and all this other bull**** and im like wtf? haha

same here.

i'm single right now, and i'm striking out everywhere i go. my sister says i'm trying to hard.

my issue is if i don't try, i turn into a blockhead, and i miss "signs" that a chick is interested.

haha yeah. in all honesty. don't even try. my current girlfriend literally fell into my lap at a bowling alley haha. i wasn't even lookin at the time. **** just happens

Hahaha I hate that missing signs bull****. Just do or say something.

A month or so ago, this girl who is 20, told me that she has had a crush on me for 4 years. I was like wtf, I was single for 2 years and you couldn't tell me that ****. I would of hit.

Same. Wasn't looking for one when I was at a bar, started talking to my girlfriend who I didn't want anything with, but then things happened. We are a very happy couple.

solution:

date a girl, tell her it's not serious but keep seeing her. don't call her your girlfriend, just say, "we're dating". there is no rule saying you can only date one chick. then when another broad is ready to throw down you can. if the other chick that you are dating gets upset you tell her, "i said we're not serious... i assumed you were sleeping with other people too... we had this discussion"

the trick here is being 100% honest with everyone involved. you're not a dirt ball b/c you're not cheating. and if you tell a chick you're not serious, but date her anyway, expect that she is getting some dick on the side. (smell her breath before you kiss her :lol: ) don't be a hypocrite and get upset if she's ****ing every other guy. but if she comes at you pissed for sleeping with some other chick, you were honest.

nothing wrong with that.

though, i'm not entirely sure i could do that... but as long as you're honest and not a hypocrite there is nothing wrong

I agree with your sister...pay attention to girls but stop trying. Don't constantly go around with the mind set of wanting/needing to find someone. Once you stop looking, someone will show interest in you as yourself. Which is really what they should be happy with in the first place

ps.. i've got two dates this week... one tonight, one friday... seems like when i've got one chick interested i've got more interested... fml

my friends wife hooked me up lol. usually I hate that though.

wise man you are..i will surely apply this at some point in life haha