One of my exs was pretty normal wasn't jealous, possessive, anything. Til he cheated on me. Then suddenly everything was, "Why are you doing that?" "Why are you going there?" Bleh, bleh. Cause he realized if he could pull it off, I could too.

Yeah sure, he looks at girls on the big screen... but I don't really count that. Everyone looks at Megan Fox... she's hot. I meant, in real life... he just doesn't look. When he sees a fat person, he'll tell me... but that's about it. Sometimes, I point out people I knew in HS and he'll look and comment on them.

I also remember hearing one of those retarded studies saying those who have been cheated on are more likely to cheat, just like those in a divorced family are more likely to do the same....

Hahahaha that's great saying.

I"m not saying on the big screen, im saying if she walked by in real life he wouldn't eye **** the **** out of her

Well he's not cheating on me. That's 100% the truth.

Do you 100% know for sure?

Don't say you do, because THAT'S ridiculous.

I can see that study being somewhat true. After being cheated on multiple times, I'll admit in my previous relationship, I almost figured, ehh he's gonna do it too, I might as well do it first/also. But that effer was crazy and there was no way in hell I would risk getting ax murdered for that. Plus I am like the guiltiest person ever over anything. If I run a redlight, I feel guilty for weeks, ha.

Why can't I say that I do. We spend almost every waking moment together (besides work, and his ride to come see me/going home). When would he have time to cheat? Just doesn't make any sense.

Not all guys are pigs.

Man these talks have gotten serious.

p.s. Duck I don't think anyone is trying to pick on you specifically, but you sound very naive. No one is saying your boyfriend is cheating on you, but there's ALWAYS a possibility unless he is surgically attached to you. Even then.... :eek:

If you guys KNEW him... you would probably not be saying any of this. He's NOT cheating on me. There is no possible WAY it could even happen.

And nah, everyone is picking on me for some reason. I'm not naive either. I've been cheated on, I've done the cheating (once, hated it), I've been in an abusive (physical and emotional) relationship, I've been through hell and I'm only 23.

On that note: I'm leaving work to go be with my boyfriend now. I'll be with him all night until the morning.

all guys are pigs, end of story

You're right, they aren't. Which is another assumption that females usually have but we'll look past that. All I'm saying Michelle, is that as much as you want to live in your fantasy love land - you can't - because for one, there's no way he doesn't look at other girls and get any kind of thoughts about them. There's no reason to believe that he has cheated/cheating on you...but there is also no reason to believe that he isn't. If he is spending every waking moment with you, frankly I'd get pretty damn sick of him myself. I for one don't feel that you can really accept the reality of it all, but it's up to you to live in your sheltered love sphere. I wouldn't stay in there too long because no matter what, they all burst at some point.

well since we're bringing in the possibility of cheating how do you know that he's actually working when he is, how do you know that he's coming from his house/work when he could be coming from another girls. Just because you think you have all his time accounted for means nothing if he's lying about it. He could just as easily tell you he's at work and be ****ing some other chick on the side. This ****'s happened to me I've unfortunately experienced most of these little tricks first hand.

so im anticipating 3 days of cleanup after this painting. its bad

I don't know I look at other guys all the time...




Oh wait....crap.



Haha lulz just kidding, or not. But yeah, like already mentioned that it's nature for not only men but women too, to look at other human beings. If you go the beach with your boyfriend, and a guy with a six pack walks in front of you with what appears to be a squirrel in his speedo, you won't look?

Why's everyone trying to convince michelle that her boyfriends cheating on her? This is a waste of the whatever thread

Also kind of ****ty

Duck as long as your happy keep at it. I'm sure your boyfriend isn't cheating on you. Don't take this **** too personal. I know I wouldn't but I guess I'm just a guy.

Guys rarely take **** too personal. If you tell a girl she missed a SALE, she'll be pissed for weeks.