Hmmm

I dunno Ken. I dunno.

Who dates? I mean, pft, like really psh, why would anyone pft lol, date? pft, psh get outta here

i dunno... maybe i'm dating the wrong girls.

my ex got wilder in bed after i broke up with her

since i dont remember the dating sex part too well as compared to after breakup and other encounters.. i will agree w/ ken lol.

my ex wasn't down with PIITB until after i broke up with her :lol:

I never did though... i just wanted her to say ok, when she did i lost interest haha

srsly tho, I've had more memorable sex out of relationship than I have in one. Well...except for one girl, she's awesome but that's a different story. I've run into some CRAZY ones in bed though, both good and bad, I've cried myself to sleep a few times.

I guess I'm the opposite. I feel that if you're not with the person, they're not dedicating feelings to the encounter(s). But if you are with someone and dedicated, the feelings and such make it that much better. That's how it is for me at least and has been in previous long term relationships.

Now don't get me wrong, I've had some GREAT times with girls in FML situations but I mean that's only been 1 or 2 times. I haven't been with many girls really haha.

I can see what you mean, but mine is only expirence w/ the few gfs that i had lol.

thats a different kind of sex Dan. its a good kind of sex, and better than random sex.

but as far as "doing stuff"... girls are generally, in my experience, more willing to try things if they aren't your girlfriend. its like they feel guilty about being a skank if their with you, but if they're not its just "fun" and experimenting is then ok because they don't necessarily care about what you think afterwards.

Not to jump off topic (lolololol) but is it bad when the fire alarm goes off and when the polic officer responding comes in he smiles, laughs, and says

"Hey there Mr. Pancoast! I didn't know you worked here! Where's that piece of junk red car been? I need someone to follow! These kids around here aren't exciting enough."

on topic

yeah I see what you mean, but again in my experience if a girl has a "past" that she's grown up from, that can be good because she can show you the ropes and open doors haha

hahaha

and you can thank me for it :lol:

Hahaha I won't give you the satisfaction.

But cerally, if she had a slut/shank/whatever phase, she admits it, is now loyal because of lessons learned/being hurt, and is clean then who gives a **** about a past. At least they are being honest. There's been a couple times where it's like "I was a slut when o was 15" and I'm like yeah and? Why be embarrased about it if you're mature enough to accept it and admit it to someone you care about so they know? Lol... Well maybe not that simple but you get it... It's the past for a reason. Plus the sex is good haha, can't argue with that!

i don't care about a chicks past as long as she is clean. I also don't want to hear about it because its the past and thats where it needs to be left. I think people bring **** like that up because they still feel guilty and need someone else to absolve them of their sins and guilt.

just be loyal and be fun in bed. if you had a train ran on you 3-4 years ago i don't want to hear about it because that'll be the last time you hear from me :lol:

whores need love too.

lol pretty much how I feel about it. no STDs ... past is past.

I'm a slut

I think sometimes not hearing about someone's past is ftw. Ignorance is bliss sometimes. :)


And I find the concept strange that a girl is more wild out of a relationship than in. I'd feel much more comfortable being open with someone that cared rather than someone who didn't?

But cereal, I knew a girl in high school who used to pretend to be some dirty do anything NSA no hard feelings kind of chick but once the d00ds gave in, she'd be a complete nut. Like, call 450345 times in a night if the d00d was out.

Lolololololololol oh boy, Mark

also yes Ken you are right. I don't find out unless I ask but it's never in any detail. Just a general question.

Also fake clingy girls ftl julz

ignorance is bliss. i don't feel the need to know every single little detail about someone's past, sexually or otherwise. granted, i want to know someone well that i'm dating. But if they're free of std's its no business of mine who they ****ed or sucked before me... as long as i'm the ONLY one they're screwing now.

mileage may vary, but in my experience women i've dated have done less in bed than women i was not dating. Thats not to say the women i've dated were poor in bed. perhaps i should be dating the chicks i'm just screwing and just be friends with the ones i was dating haha