Don't stop talking about it. I like hearing opinions about it. Think about it this way with that kid who is paranoid. $5 says that girl is in her older teen years or around 20 years old and still is in that partying stage. She isn't mature most likely if in that stage, so if you look for something serious, why ****ing bother. You'll get a whole lot of baggage with it.

I wanted to tell both of the guys that their girl cheated on them with me, but I didn't want to be a dick. I was very close to though with the one girl. ****ing dumb bitches. While I've been in my relationship with my girlfriend for 9 months, I've had probably about 5 girls wanting me. I started to believe that saying, they want you when they can't have you.

lol at people who stay with someone because of a baby. Talk about being miserable when theres nothing there on top of it.

Get along enough to support the child and give it what they need, thats all that matters.

i have noticed that, when you got a g/f, chicks tend to talk to you more.

^ agreed since ive just started noticing this o_0.

it's probably because you're putting off more hormones since you're getting laid more often.

hmm i would agree with that.

Or because those girls are bitches and want to make your life hell with the girl you're with. Ever notice how they normally stop talking to you when your single again for the most part? They think they want you because they see how you treat the current girl and how you act when you're happy... Then they be you alone and realize it's not what they want...

Meesh, there was a girl I worked on for a year or so. She races at the same track as I do. I was very nice to her and what not, she had trust problems. Don't know why, but she did and was never talkative at all with me but with others. I did everything I could to make it work. No go. Then randomly she starts trusting me (not while I'm with a girl though) and was interested. I was finishing up school (in last semester) and was getting a lot of **** from my dad about finding a job. I said I'm not ready for it because I have so much **** going on. She started acting weird again. Then I asked if she wanted a relationship, she then wasn't sure. I met my girl now and after that happened, she blew up at me but now we are real good friends. I know, long and I don't know if that made sense.

i have noticed that before too lol

crap like that happens to me all the time. i'll be single and try, no girl wants to bother. as soon as i get serious with a girl, everyone wants to talk and chill and all this other bull**** and im like wtf? haha

same here.

i'm single right now, and i'm striking out everywhere i go. my sister says i'm trying to hard.

my issue is if i don't try, i turn into a blockhead, and i miss "signs" that a chick is interested.

haha yeah. in all honesty. don't even try. my current girlfriend literally fell into my lap at a bowling alley haha. i wasn't even lookin at the time. **** just happens

Hahaha I hate that missing signs bull****. Just do or say something.

A month or so ago, this girl who is 20, told me that she has had a crush on me for 4 years. I was like wtf, I was single for 2 years and you couldn't tell me that ****. I would of hit.

Same. Wasn't looking for one when I was at a bar, started talking to my girlfriend who I didn't want anything with, but then things happened. We are a very happy couple.

solution:

date a girl, tell her it's not serious but keep seeing her. don't call her your girlfriend, just say, "we're dating". there is no rule saying you can only date one chick. then when another broad is ready to throw down you can. if the other chick that you are dating gets upset you tell her, "i said we're not serious... i assumed you were sleeping with other people too... we had this discussion"

the trick here is being 100% honest with everyone involved. you're not a dirt ball b/c you're not cheating. and if you tell a chick you're not serious, but date her anyway, expect that she is getting some dick on the side. (smell her breath before you kiss her :lol: ) don't be a hypocrite and get upset if she's ****ing every other guy. but if she comes at you pissed for sleeping with some other chick, you were honest.

nothing wrong with that.

though, i'm not entirely sure i could do that... but as long as you're honest and not a hypocrite there is nothing wrong

I agree with your sister...pay attention to girls but stop trying. Don't constantly go around with the mind set of wanting/needing to find someone. Once you stop looking, someone will show interest in you as yourself. Which is really what they should be happy with in the first place

ps.. i've got two dates this week... one tonight, one friday... seems like when i've got one chick interested i've got more interested... fml

my friends wife hooked me up lol. usually I hate that though.

wise man you are..i will surely apply this at some point in life haha

hook ups are the best. i think all of my "one nighters" were through friends

its just honesty. you get what you want, while laying the expectations. you give the girl, the other human in this "relationship" a chance to say... "no, that doesn't work for me. it's either me only or not at all". if you just want to **** around but keep someone around to call up and date and bring around to your friends and she's not digging that set up (which most won't, or if they do they'll think you're not serious) you can move on.

i dated a chick for a month and a half, i told her it wasn't serious and that she would never be my girlfriend. she came around 5 our of 7 nights a week and we hung out with, mainly her friends. i ditched her when i grew bored (she was a moron).

i felt bad, but at the same time i told her flat out, multiple times even, that i wasn't interested in a serious relationship

yeah, it gets on my nerves.

but, i am a really blockhead/idiot when it comes to that stuff. i mean, it's almost to the point a chick has to say "do me now" and whip out her tits before i get the point :roll:

yeah, ive also asked my sister to "hook" me up with some of her friends.

her answer, "No, they're a bitches. That, and you need to aim lower." :lol:

I too am generally bad with signs.. Doesnt help that if we hook up first either lol :o.

Oh well. GF now is great, I am thankful to my friend/friend's wife (who is also a friend, and tried hitting on me in HS apparently) lol.

i'm going to sound so shallow and asshole like now, but, none of my friends here (locally) have hot friends to hook me up with :lol:

All the girls I slept with I said I didn't want to have a relationship. They still caved in and did it. They got a little too attached though. Got annoying, but somehow I was able to shoo them away. Honestly does work and they definately fall for it.

yeah... that's generally how it is... or they don't have female friends... right Snoozie?!?

thats how it was for me. None of my friends are single and their GFs seem to not have any girl friends.. or ones that I would want to date. :roll: lol

they don't fall for anything. that's the genius here. you're telling them the truth. if they try for more, even after being told there is no chance, it's on them

I can honestly say I dont have ANY female friends I'd hook up with any guys. I know how retarded my friends are and how they act when they're in a relationship. I'm not doing it to protect my friends, I'd refuse to save someone's sanity.

i mean i am really bad with signs, well, here's a story of how bad i am,

i was in san diego at a bar, fairly drunk, and these 2 asian chicks walk up to us and start talking to me and my friend. i don't remeber much of the convo cause i was pretty drunk. well, i guess me and one of the chicks connected (we started talking about korean stuff, i think). anyways, she asked me "me, me and my friend are going for some sushi, want to come?"

me, in all my glory said, "Nope, i'm good, alrdy ate."

:facepalm

i didn't relize the idiotic mistake i made till i got back to the ship (was a port call), then i started curing up a storm relizing what i just did

always is, :lol:

i never understood this about women...well, i guess its instinctual (going back to our more animalistic instincts)

but, if you're not interested in dating a guy, and you're not interested in dating a friend of yours... where is the harm? who knows, they could work out better than ever expected.

i don't think i've ever had a hook up hook up... more of a hanging out with friends from different circles and they bring along a friend and we hit it off. its easy to hit it off with a friend of a friend though... you've already passed the "ok to keep around" test

That's very true. I felt like non of it was my fault when I wasn't looking for anything.

In fact this girl I worked with at my job before this one. I'm trying to tell her that this guy is just using her for sex when she has something for him and he said he doesn't want a relationship. She's like I forced it out of him though, yada ya. She was so ****ing incoherent, and here she almost ****ed him last night. She knows he doesn't want anything yet she continued to want him or something. I kind of rheemed her out.

i fell into the habit for a while that i would try so hard, i'd end up finding someone who was crazy, and not oh we've dated a month lets get married crazy, the "i dont wanna use a rubber cuz i want kids crazy". i stopped lookin after that haha

Haha wow, that is crazy for sure.

I guess I never thought of that last part. it goes back to the things I've been through with them in the past though. They've used me and been retarded about life. I'd hate to think a friend of mine would put some guy I'm trying to help out through a ****ty time.

Plus, all... If not most of my girl friends are drinking their life and parents money away at school.

haha yeah. and then another one. after every time we did it, she would say " i think im pregnant". after the third time and she wasn't, told her we were done and never to talk to me again, i was a friggin sophomore in high school haha

lol wtf? how old was she? she end up on maury?

she was a senior at the time. hotter than hell. she is now living in maine, two kids and not married haha.

You sure they aren't your kids? haha