[CleanNeon98]

So one of our kittens is very playful and lap friendly. The other is not, usually if you pet him a few times, he will walk a few feet away and sit down. I read online that maybe he's too used to playing "attack the hand" and it said not to use your hands as their toys. Then again, we play with both the same way and only one has a problem. Other times you pet him and he loves it, usually when he's falling asleep or just waking up, the other takes being petted almost anytime. He doesn't attack when you pet him, but just calmly gets up and walks away as if to say "not now please"

Any advice for making our little guy more lap friendly? I've tried sitting on the couch and putting some treats in my hand and making him come up for them, and while he eats I pet him lightly. Not sure what else to do. They play together, sleep together, but usually when the friendly one goes up on our lap, little guy will just sleep alone on the floor or somewhere else. I know cats will have different personalities, but want to see if there's anything we can do. They're about 3-5 months old, the lap friendly one is about a month older than the lonely kitty. We got both together since they were bonded, but they are starting to show differences. Together, they play really well and keep each other occupied.