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Originally Posted by meeshell
you know me so well, lol miss you and marina by the way! hope parent life is treating you both well!
either way, the power of positive thinking does wonders to anyone thinking they'll never get to be more than anyone's friend. if you start a friendship thinking that's all it'll ever be, then that's all it will ever be. same goes for being in a relationship, if you think your significant other is going to leave you, she will. I've gotten tired of fighting the false complexes guys have given themselves while I was in a relationship with them.
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Word. Junior is doing alright. He's a cranky one. You guys can stop by and see the little guy whenever if you felt like it. We tried to make toys for tots but we were too late. We're home a lot now for SOME reason ;).
Positive thinking can be a bad thing I think too. A lot of guys having issues with that sort of thing tend to get themselves convinced that it will happen. They then will do things they shouldn't like spend too much, or put too much stock into things, overthink things, etc. No amount of positive thinking will fix the damage caused by that.
In the end I am convinced you will have the most fun from life by hooking up when it comes, following bros before hos, and keeping your eyes open. The relationship WILL come before you know it. And once it's there, it's generally there to stay so don't piss away the freedom you have now. You gotta truly not care about hooking up/relationships. Then you can talk to women like they are people. It's funny, now I have NO trouble talking to women (aside from the smack later on for inadvertently flirting) but I for some reason am nervous about approaching potential clients for the business. Always a new battle.
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