This night has become very depressing

[240sxDann]

So my mom went out to dinner with a friend tonight. I called her to ask her something and see what was goin on and she sounded really stuffed up. I asked her if she was ok and she was like yea its just allergies. Well I called her a bit later to see where she was (cuz she said she was comin home, and she wasn't) and she tells me shes at my sisters cuz she needed someone to talk to. I'm like wtf...whats wrong? She then tells me that a good friend of hers was in the hospital. This lady was like the nicest person I've ever met, and shes been battling liver cancer, her body rejecting a new liver, and a lot of blood problems for the last like...6-7 years. Well she then tells me that this morning, she got up and when she got out of bed she fell. Her BF (they've been together forever and were planning on getting married) ran over to see if she was ok, and she said the one side of her body went completely numb and she couldn't move it. She had a stroke. She wasn't even 40. The fall knocked a blood clot loose and it traveled straight to her brain. By the time they got her to the hospital, she had gone completely brain dead. A vegitable...they're pulling the plug tonight. :cry: I know that everybody has their problems, but its just not fair. It really is true that the good die young. Even through all the sickness, she got up EVERY morning at 5am to make her bf lunch for the day. She did anything she could for him, and they absolutely adored each other. They were the perfect couple. After both of them had failed marriages, they found each other, and were happier then ever, and **** like this has to happen. Its just not fair. This is gonna be a really hard funeral. :(

[zerioustt]

that is sad man....

[ozthunder]

I'm sorry dude, blood clots are beyond scary. :(

[Snowboy459]

I actually lost my breath as I was reading this.


I'm sorry man, I really am.

[sleepersatty99]

wow im sorry to about this. but if you need to vent, talk or whatever even though i dont know you. but feel free to drop me a pm or email chambersjwu99@verizon.net . and im sure many other TsT brothers will step up too.

[Snowboy459]

^ Definitely man. In 2006, I buried 4 family members in three months, so I do understand what you are going through. If you need to talk, you can email me at snowboy459@aol.com or give me a call. I'll PM you my cell.

[foss]

don't know what to say man..stay strong.

[240sxDann]

thanks guys. I do appreciate it. Its just hard to believe shes gone. And I honestly really regret not being able to spend more time with her. Her bf proposed to her on a cruise we all went on, under the stars. (er, fiance)

[97eclipse]

that really sucks. stay strong man. we all kno how u feel bc im sure all of use have lost ones that were close to us.

[240sxDann]

wow...so...I was wrong. She hadn't had a liver transplant yet. Just this past week they recieved word that she had just been accepted onto the donor list.

[97eclipse]

wow thats even worse.

[Gorilla Unit 33]

keep your head up danny

[boostedfury]

wow man i am trully choked up and saddened to hear this. May God help comfort your mom, the woman's fiance, and all family amd friends, and of course you man. If you need ne thing pm me dude. I know what it is like to lose someone very close:cry:

[05Accent]

damn man.. sorry to hear.

[CleanNeon98]

Damn thats harsh. If you need anything, let me know

[james_ls]

That's crazy.

I held my breath reading that whole thing.

Been there; unfortunately....if you want anyone to vent to, or just to clear your head, let me know man.

[Omar_MSP]

damn, my eyes watered up as i read the whole thing. im sorry to hear.

[CHAOS]

damn dude, thats really sad. give your mom a hug for me dan. that has got to be rough on everyone.

[turbo4g63]

thats seriously one of the saddest things i've ever heard...sorry to hear all of this has happened. keep your head up dude

[Tiny]

I've always wondered, like anyone else in this world, how I would be remembered when I die.

To read the emotion and see the pure sincerity in your post is a great testament to this lady and the person she was. To be acquainted with a person like that, if even for what seems to you a fleeting moment that is gone all too soon, brings out that sense of feeling and compassion that we are all too quick to discard these days.

I hope that her memory is carried on through everyone's lives that she influenced, and they honor her by giving just a little more forethought to their words and deeds, because truly, she bore the worse, and her conviction never wavered.

Funerals are never fun, but remember you are there to honor her life, not her death.

[05OCsrt-4]

u still got my number dan, hit me up

[sleepersatty99]

I've always wondered, like anyone else in this world, how I would be remembered when I die.

To read the emotion and see the pure sincerity in your post is a great testament to this lady and the person she was. To be acquainted with a person like that, if even for what seems to you a fleeting moment that is gone all too soon, brings out that sense of feeling and compassion that we are all too quick to discard these days.

I hope that her memory is carried on through everyone's lives that she influenced, and they honor her by giving just a little more forethought to their words and deeds, because truly, she bore the worse, and her conviction never wavered.

Funerals are never fun, but remember you are there to honor her life, not her death.

you took the words right out of my mouth.

[EvlEgl]

Wow, I got chills reading the Line saying she became Braindead by the time she got to the hospital, I'm sorry for your loss and wish you the best...And funerals are indeed not fun I just recently buried my grandfather and was a big giant balling baby the whole time.

I'm sorry again for your loss may your mother Rest in peace

[igo4bmx]

my condolences.

[jules]

i can honestly understand what you are going through. i drilled myself day and night for months about abandoning her and never getting to say i love you and miss you... just try to remember the good days b/c i am definite there are more good than bad... and just keep your head up man seriously. if not for any1 for her. she is a peace now no more pain...

[240sxDann]

...just so you guys know this isn't my mom that passed, it was a friend of my moms. but thank you