Plz Kill Me

[Omar_MSP]

Ionno i'm just under a great depression. beers and halo is making it better but i get a sudden flash back and it kills me to know how i'm such an idiot...

here is my story. in reference towards an author in which has great knowledge in what happened to me. I'm a changed man, i'm not longer the nice guy. i'm sorry, i just can't even think of being a nice guy anymore...

http://blog.tedthepenguin.com/the-nice-guy-finishes-last/

your .02 is much appreciated. i understand i'm not alone and i know how some of you feel. i just feel as if i'm very late.... some of you had this years ago when teenager... and i'm 21 and finally experiencing it...

someone lend me a 9mm for a night?

[TROLL]

it'll fade, it always does. every day will get easier and you'll get past it, dont worry. just ride it out man... give a friend a call or something and do some venting, it usually helps some :)

[Buster]

Too bad its not true, Ive been a nice guy my whole life and have a great 6 year strong relationship to boot. The girls who want the nice guy will come to you after all the assholes have made it clear why they are assholes. No one wants an asshole and in the end they are alone or with the fat whore they got pregnant. be real thats all.

[Chair-Force]

Tonight is a great night to slide that Mazda into a pole at high speeds!

[On Sale]

Tonight is a great night to slide that Mazda into a pole at high speeds!

wow what a ****ed up statement. your a scumbag. plain and simple. leave tst and never return.

[Chair-Force]

wow what a ****ed up statement. your a scumbag. plain and simple. leave tst and never return.

Oh please, he's not going to kill himself. We both know this.

[05GT]

Will a bb gun work?

Seriously though, (WARNING THIS MIGHT COME OFF AS A DICK COMMENT, DON'T CONTINUE READING IF YOU ARE JUST GOING TO BITCH ABOUT IT :

What happened sucks, and it does make you feel bad, but you need to suck it up and be a man. Come on, thoughts of killing yourself over a girl? Thoughts of killing yourself and then posting those thoughts on a public forum? What the **** are you thinking?

Sorry but no girl is worth killing yourself over. And I hate to be the one to say this, but generally people who are going to commit suicide, don't go posting about it 1st, at least not that I've experienced. So this kinda looks like a call for attention.

Either way, as Bryan mentioned, it will pass. I think it happens to everyone at least, maybe not feelings of suicide, but I'm sure being upset over the same thing has. Go hang out with some friends, and take your mind off it. Beer isn't going to help, because as soon as you stop drinking, it's going to smack you right back in the face. Drinking is the easy way.

[lownslow95]

Will a bb gun work?

Seriously though, (WARNING THIS MIGHT COME OFF AS A DICK COMMENT, DON'T CONTINUE READING IF YOU ARE JUST GOING TO BITCH ABOUT IT :

What happened sucks, and it does make you feel bad, but you need to suck it up and be a man. Come on, thoughts of killing yourself over a girl? Thoughts of killing yourself and then posting those thoughts on a public forum? What the **** are you thinking?

Sorry but no girl is worth killing yourself over. And I hate to be the one to say this, but generally people who are going to commit suicide, don't go posting about it 1st, at least not that I've experienced. So this kinda looks like a call for attention.

Either way, as Bryan mentioned, it will pass. I think it happens to everyone at least, maybe not feelings of suicide, but I'm sure being upset over the same thing has. Go hang out with some friends, and take your mind off it. Beer isn't going to help, because as soon as you stop drinking, it's going to smack you right back in the face. Drinking is the easy way.

I agree. Just talk to some friends and let some of the anger vent off. Drinking beer when your acting like this, isn't really going to help. I knew someone who tried the drinking beer thing, not going to mention names for obvious reasons, but he wanted to go out and kill somebody.

[Scapegoat]

so where do you want to do this? I only take cash, the rest can be tracked...

Seriously though, (WARNING THIS MIGHT COME OFF AS A DICK COMMENT, DON'T CONTINUE READING IF YOU ARE JUST GOING TO BITCH ABOUT IT :

What happened sucks, and it does make you feel bad, but you need to suck it up and be a man. Come on, thoughts of killing yourself over a girl? Thoughts of killing yourself and then posting those thoughts on a public forum? What the **** are you thinking?

Sorry but no girl is worth killing yourself over. And I hate to be the one to say this, but generally people who are going to commit suicide, don't go posting about it 1st, at least not that I've experienced. So this kinda looks like a call for attention.

Either way, as Bryan mentioned, it will pass. I think it happens to everyone at least, maybe not feelings of suicide, but I'm sure being upset over the same thing has. Go hang out with some friends, and take your mind off it. Beer isn't going to help, because as soon as you stop drinking, it's going to smack you right back in the face. Drinking is the easy way.

A lot of people that post about killing themselves do it for attention, a lot of people that post about killing themselves also do it. Suicide, and talking about it, is just about always about getting attention, even if that attention is a cry for help.


Lets define this "nice guy" you're complaining about being. The typical "nice guy" that is frowned upon is the guy that lets himself get walked all over, does everything, and usually puts his own feelings and needs on the side in order to make those around him feel better, or help them get what they want. I assume you gave her everything, catered to every whim?

The asshole is the exact opposite.

You're duty as a man is to fall somewhere in between. I'm a nice guy, but I'm an asshole. I get what I want and I make sure my friends and family's feelings are taken into consideration. I don't take **** from someone if I don't feel like it is fair for me to be taking it. Sometimes I let stuff slide, usually with strangers cause they're not worth my time or effort. Now, if someone gave a friend/gf/family member **** in front of me I'll say something.

The moral of the story here is, don't give up yourself for anyone. But give in for those people that are special, those you love.

Those are the guys women love. Confident, strong, resolute. They know what they want and they won't let anyone tell them otherwise. But you have to have compassion, you can't be a complete asshole... if you are, you'll only attract the wrong kind of girl.

[Racersky]

Ionno i'm just under a great depression. beers and halo is making it better but i get a sudden flash back and it kills me to know how i'm such an idiot...

here is my story. in reference towards an author in which has great knowledge in what happened to me. I'm a changed man, i'm not longer the nice guy. i'm sorry, i just can't even think of being a nice guy anymore...

http://blog.tedthepenguin.com/the-nice-guy-finishes-last/

your .02 is much appreciated. i understand i'm not alone and i know how some of you feel. i just feel as if i'm very late.... some of you had this years ago when teenager... and i'm 21 and finally experiencing it...

someone lend me a 9mm for a night?

I've been a listener still to this day.....yeah I haven't had a girlfriend god knows how long and I need to make a change. That blog was dead right about me if I put it into my position. All the girls I know that I want to get with always comes to me talking about their boyfriend doing this and doing that and telling me things that you normally wouldn't tell to a person but I guess I'm considered just a friend that listens. Fawk I should change too -_-"

[upperguy]

**edit was in response to scapegoat
^^^^^^^^

seriously, confidence is everything! put yourself in their shoes. She has someone to talk to without expecting sex afterwards. Everyone loves a challenge, that's why girls go for the asshole because they think their personality will make a difference and change the asshole's views.

Sure eventually you may find a girl that is nice and is looking for a nice guy, but theres a much better chance that she's a sidepiece for that asshole because she thinks she can make him settle down.

I used to be an extremely nice guy and I didn't get any, then I became an asshole. Like a legitimate asshole. I would argue with everyone and talk **** and do what I wanted. I got some but not a ton. Then just recently I found a happy medium and it's really working for me. Not just from a sex aspect but for everything! What I'm trying to say is that you should expand your attitude a bit and try new things.

I also refuse to believe that you deserve the right to kill yourself just because it's not working out with this girl, a girl which you probably never had a chance with to start(not as an insult). You're basically the boring guy, so get more interesting immediately.

P.S. I literally just woke up so if this is incoherent....well thats why

[Kerplunk105]

I dunno. I think that girls may want the asshole for now, but in the long term they would want the nice guy.

I personally have never dated anyone I would consider an asshole...but then I'm just not that type of girl...

[blu4door]

did you man up and off yourself yet?

[Scapegoat]

I dunno. I think that girls may want the asshole for now, but in the long term they would want the nice guy.

I'd say in the long run women (not girls) would want neither. Unless they prefer a dom/sub relationship with someone. Having a nice guy around all the time is like having a little puppy...

I gotta be honest, I hate this nice guy vs asshole debate. With a passion. The "nice guy" is always blaming the girls and the "asshole" for his problems instead of changing the, himself... that's why you get lumped into the "nice guy" category, cause you can't (or won't) find the strength within yourself to be a man.

An "asshole" isn't a man either... anyone who is abusive can not be considered a man.. they're just as much a child as the girls that go after them.

Upperguy, it sounds like you've grown up. Everyone goes through phases. I was a "nice guy" during my first relationship. It lasted 4 years. I was bummed for a week. After that I realized that this chick that broke my little heart had NO power over me and didn't deserve to have ANY effect on me. After all, I was 21 with the rest of my life ahead of me, and she was just a highschool girlfriend... big ****ing deal :screwy:

[Scapegoat]

I've been a listener still to this day.....yeah I haven't had a girlfriend god knows how long and I need to make a change. That blog was dead right about me if I put it into my position. All the girls I know that I want to get with always comes to me talking about their boyfriend doing this and doing that and telling me things that you normally wouldn't tell to a person but I guess I'm considered just a friend that listens. Fawk I should change too -_-"

That blog was the most pathetic piece of drivel I've ever had the displeasure of scanning over...

The only people that complain about "assholes" are girls and the typically defined "nice guy". You'd do best to take the following advice to heart:

A "nice guy" is typically a pussy, and women don't want what they already have. And, women generally don't like playing with assholes for very long. So for your own good, its best not to be either.

[Racersky]

That blog was the most pathetic piece of drivel I've ever had the displeasure of scanning over...

The only people that complain about "assholes" are girls and the typically defined "nice guy". You'd do best to take the following advice to heart:

A "nice guy" is typically a pussy, and women don't want what they already have. And, women generally don't like playing with assholes for very long. So for your own good, its best not to be either.

So I guess being somewhere along the middle of the two is where I should aim for?

[Scapegoat]

So I guess being somewhere along the middle of the two is where I should aim for?

what is your definition of "Man"? IE: what should a man be, how should a man act

[zerioustt]

I'd say in the long run women (not girls) would want neither. Unless they prefer a dom/sub relationship with someone. Having a nice guy around all the time is like having a little puppy...

I gotta be honest, I hate this nice guy vs asshole debate. With a passion. The "nice guy" is always blaming the girls and the "asshole" for his problems instead of changing the, himself... that's why you get lumped into the "nice guy" category, cause you can't (or won't) find the strength within yourself to be a man.

An "asshole" isn't a man either... anyone who is abusive can not be considered a man.. they're just as much a child as the girls that go after them.

Upperguy, it sounds like you've grown up. Everyone goes through phases. I was a "nice guy" during my first relationship. It lasted 4 years. I was bummed for a week. After that I realized that this chick that broke my little heart had NO power over me and didn't deserve to have ANY effect on me. After all, I was 21 with the rest of my life ahead of me, and she was just a highschool girlfriend... big ****ing deal :screwy:

werd...i was also in a 4 year realtionship and thought life was over for a few days. but then i realized that i dont need someone to make me happy. if you cant be happy alone you cant make someone else happy.

That blog was the most pathetic piece of drivel I've ever had the displeasure of scanning over...

The only people that complain about "assholes" are girls and the typically defined "nice guy". You'd do best to take the following advice to heart:

A "nice guy" is typically a pussy, and women don't want what they already have. And, women generally don't like playing with assholes for very long. So for your own good, its best not to be either.

i say that all the time, why would a girl want to date a vagina? ill tell you exactly what girls want(for the most part).

1. confidence
2. sense of humor
3. mans man. if you dont know what that is your SOL.
4. someone who knows what chivalry is.


thats all for now ill add to it later.



but honestly dont worry about any girl, if it wasnt meant to be owell. go hangout with some friends and get some schmeezies.

[turbo4g63]

i've always been the nice guy all through high school...struck out a few times. No big deal, i just shrugged it off. it took me till after high school to find the right one. i've been w/ my girl for 3 years now and going strong

[den9]

best advice right here
**** it, drive on


just think how you wont be tied down, enjoy it while it lasts, there will be some1 new eventually.

[zerioustt]

best advice right here
**** it, drive on


just think how you wont be tied down, enjoy it while it lasts, there will be some1 new eventually.

werd..

and dont go out looking for a gf..that doesnt work. your gonna find someone on a whim IMO. either way man your young go out and spread your seed(just use protection).

[upperguy]

how old is OP anyone know?

[TROLL]

well he's looking at the thread so i guess he's ok...

[Omar_MSP]

holy shat i just passed out and woke up to see 21 post on this thread....

I've read everyone's post. Yea i'm not dumb enough to kill myself. No I will never kill myself over a girl, it was just the depression not typically the girl part. the whole being nice to everyone part.

I didn't think anyone is being rude, i see everyone's view in everything. whether its to just hit and go or walk it off and try again.

Here's the thing... I've been hitting and going for a long time and i'm ready to have an actual girlfriend. i'm ready for commitment and to make a family. I'm just so bummed out that i get sooo close and i just get **** thrown at the fan.

live and learn. you won't hear me posting things like this again. i was just piss drunk and said fawk it.

[Scapegoat]

Here's the thing... I've been hitting and going for a long time and i'm ready to have an actual girlfriend. i'm ready for commitment and to make a family. I'm just so bummed out that i get sooo close and i just get **** thrown at the fan.

stop dating girls, start looking for women.

how old are you?

PS: Looking at every chick you date a possible mother for your children is just ****ing bizarre... that's no way to find the "one" anyway. Just go out and date and have fun. The whole point of dating is to find a person that compliments you and your life, without either of you making drastic changes to your way of life in order to get along.

[Omar_MSP]

stop dating girls, start looking for women.

how old are you?

PS: Looking at every chick you date a possible mother for your children is just ****ing bizarre... that's no way to find the "one" anyway. Just go out and date and have fun. The whole point of dating is to find a person that compliments you and your life, without either of you making drastic changes to your way of life in order to get along.
Yea thats how i met the last girl. going out, hanging out, than i started doing favors and a whole bunch of nice guy ****. then she started coming to work with hickeys, and rumors about ****ing random guys from work... but other than that it got me nowhere so i gotta restart everything your saying and try it again.

[upperguy]

Yea i'm not dumb enough to kill myself. No I will never kill myself over a girl

yeah but you got drunk and posted about wanting to do it, thats almost as bad:-p


now tell us how old you are

[Omar_MSP]

yeah but you got drunk and posted about wanting to do it, thats almost as bad:-p


now tell us how old you are

yea i have a split personality lol. nah im all talk when i'm drunk... (hides ninja sword)

i'm 21.

[Scapegoat]

Yea thats how i met the last girl. going out, hanging out, than i started doing favors and a whole bunch of nice guy ****. then she started coming to work with hickeys, and rumors about ****ing random guys from work... but other than that it got me nowhere so i gotta restart everything your saying and try it again.

and she broke up with you?

[Omar_MSP]

and she broke up with you?

its wierd she was a tease the entire time. i thought we had something going. like she would call me to hang out, and a million other things. This past weekend was her birthday and she wanted me to go out with her. i said i had things to do and she got mad.

She doesn't know that i know more than she wanted me to know. And there all facts because i've spoken with these guys she's been with and of course there Player Material and i'm the Nice Guy "Listener" so i just spread out the relationship, avoided her, very small talk, said hi to her when she said hi. you know she's still a person i'm going to treat her like one. but when it comes to being more than that for her own benefit, thats were i will say NO and not follow.

of course last night i could have gotten laid if i went with her... but i have a very open mind. She just got ****ed not to long ago... yea she may clean off the outside of her bagina but i know for a fact girls can't just clean the inside so its kinda sick sticking my pecker in a dirty hole... thats how ppl get that herpies and ****, cuz of a dirty punany inside. its like the picture of the apple, outside it may look nice and red, but u open it up and its brown inside.

uggh... lol, i think its funny and i'm actually feeling good because having this mindset made me not commit suicide, and avoid herpies. i had a fun night last night without her anyway...

i love me.

[Scapegoat]

you know she's still a person i'm going to treat her like one.

no she isn't... she's a dirty skank...

and apparently the two of you weren't dating exclusively... so who cares?

[Omar_MSP]

no she isn't... she's a dirty skank...

and apparently the two of you weren't dating exclusively... so who cares?

she's experimenting because she's confused and doesn't know what to do. she's driven by the asshole. so yea, you can safely say she is skank material. but i see more in her than that. i'm moving on though, she's a turnoff.

and she knew what was going on the whoooole time. she just used me, and thats wat grinded my gears. so yea, who cares? i don't anymore.

[upperguy]

she's experimenting because she's confused and doesn't know what to do. she's driven by the asshole. so yea, you can safely say she is skank material. but i see more in her than that. i'm moving on though, she's a turnoff.

and she knew what was going on the whoooole time. she just used me, and thats wat grinded my gears. so yea, who cares? i don't anymore.

You know what really grinds my gears?(LOL) when people aren't able to man up and take control. I bet if you had actually stopped listening for a minute and told her what you were looking for you could have probably had something. She's not a skank or a slut, she's not confused either. She knew exactly what she was going to get from you and what you weren't going to get from her because you wouldn't really put yourself out there.

Based on this thread I would say you're talking out of your ass now because she is a turnon just based on the fact that you cant have her, you do still care and you are going to stew on her for minimum of 17 more days.

Never assume that you are in a relationship because you "hang out and she calls you" thats just dumb.

Love,
Danny:)

[Scapegoat]

She's not a skank or a slut

no, seriously... she is. Any chick that is ****ing around with a number of guys, at work or other, is a skank. Plain and simple.

[Omar_MSP]

You know what really grinds my gears?(LOL) when people aren't able to man up and take control. I bet if you had actually stopped listening for a minute and told her what you were looking for you could have probably had something. She's not a skank or a slut, she's not confused either. She knew exactly what she was going to get from you and what you weren't going to get from her because you wouldn't really put yourself out there.

Based on this thread I would say you're talking out of your ass now because she is a turnon just based on the fact that you cant have her, you do still care and you are going to stew on her for minimum of 17 more days.

Never assume that you are in a relationship because you "hang out and she calls you" thats just dumb.

Love,
Danny:)
if you only knew danny, if you only knew.

Love,
Omar

but seriously we really had something going on man, if you were to witness our friendship u would think we were dating. thats a tight relationship.

she is confused because she was ****ing these guys hoping to get into a relationship with them. but they don't want that because there Players, then she tries to change them but of course there going to be the assholes they are. then she crys back to me... so danny if you only knew i swear you would think otherwise.

i never thought we were in a relationship, i'm saying were heading in that direction and here she goes ****ing random guys and i'm just sitting duck saying...double you tee eff.... am i a fawking wall? i'm nobody to her? wat the hell?

so that was got me depressed. and believe me i manned up and told her on friday. the reason why she got mad at me was because i literally made her feel like ****. she comes asking me out to have fun yesterday but i went and told her "how bout u invite the hickey guy, you trust him enough to have fun before, i'm sure u'll have fun without me"

she gave this huge ugghh sound and said, u mad at me aren't you? i'm like...nope i'm not mad...

i really wasn't. i was actually.... Disgusted. I didn't tell her that because she thinks i don't know about her **** buddies. so i kept quiet, i already made her feel like **** so i didn't wanna stab her with another comment.

[Omar_MSP]

no, seriously... she is. Any chick that is ****ing around with a number of guys, at work or other, is a skank. Plain and simple.

i think she looking tooo hard for a guy. she should just relax and take it slow. if not, before she knows it, she'd **** like 20 guys on a random basis. thats a dartay coochay...

but like i said, i think before i actually tried to get her back... i said, nah she's on a fawking spree and i'm never going to win that battle. only way she'll change is when she realizes that the nice guys were the one's that actually cared for her and would have been the right boyfriend.

i say? let it be. i cant chase a girl that has her mindset towards assholes. i can only sit back and watch.

i'll never be the nice guy again. i won't be the asshole either. i'll be neither. i'll be. Omar.

[SayNoToPistons]

Tonight is a great night to slide that Mazda into a pole at high speeds!

Ironically, i saw pics of an orange Mazdaspeed Protege that wrapped around a pole. It jumped flipped and before it hit the ground, the roof hit the pole and the car completely wrapped around it.

[Omar_MSP]

Ironically, i saw pics of an orange Mazdaspeed Protege that wrapped around a pole. It jumped flipped and before it hit the ground, the roof hit the pole and the car completely wrapped around it.


yea he was called 1338 @ mazdas247.com

He had alot of friends and even myself. so yea i doubt i do that.

[Omar_MSP]

The orange sticker on the back of my car says Remember 1338.

http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e114/Boricua_SHO/Carshow%20Pics/100_1597.jpg

[den9]

just dont be pussy whipped and let girls walk over you, and if a girl uses you, make sure you know, and enjoy it while it lasts

[Omar_MSP]

just dont be pussy whipped and let girls walk over you, and if a girl uses you, make sure you know, and enjoy it while it lasts

that sir i will never be lol. pussy whipped, i have friends that define that term lol. man they can't get rid of the girl cuz they need the pussy.

[Racersky]

wow....i passed out for a few hours and a million comments just arise awesome....I seriously love this forum cause you can't get better than any this haha.

[W_Evo]

It could be worse dude.

Try being married and comming home after a year in Iraq and having your wife be pregnant with someone else's kid.

[Z3R0]

Yeah...I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place :(...between the "nice guy" and the "asshole". I walk away when she stresses me out or offends me, but I don't disrespect her ever. I listen all the time and let her know I'm always there, but...meh its not my thread...

It could be worse dude.

Try being married and comming home after a year in Iraq and having your wife be pregnant with someone else's kid.


Damn

[Scapegoat]

Yeah...I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place :(...between the "nice guy" and the "asshole". I walk away when she stresses me out or offends me, but I don't disrespect her ever. I listen all the time and let her know I'm always there, but...meh its not my thread...



Damn

Dating advice with Dr. Scapegoat:

When someone is "stressing you out" or offends you in some manner, you always have the right to tell them so. If she doesn't apologize for doing either of those things she either doesn't respect you, or doesn't care.

When you walk away it only proves her right and places the power ultimately in her hands every time there is an argument.

[AUTORACENBBOY]

this reminds me of the speech from Team America where they talk about pu**y's di*ks and assholes.
i figure the nice guy is the dick
the pussy is the chick
the asshole... is the asshole
anybody remember that speech?

[xEJ20x]

this reminds me of the speech from Team America where they talk about pu**y's di*ks and assholes.
i figure the nice guy is the dick
the pussy is the chick
the asshole... is the asshole
anybody remember that speech?

Wrong.
In this instance, both the nice guy and the girl are the pussy. And the Asshole is the dick. Cause even if it isn't physically, the nice guy is gettin ****ed too.

[xEJ20x]

she's experimenting because she's confused and doesn't know what to do. she's driven by the asshole.

Usually when a girl says she confused and is experimenting it really means that she wants to go around and ride any random dick.


Except yours.

[OptiCon]

Halo is making it BETTER!? :eek:

[Omar_MSP]

Usually when a girl says she confused and is experimenting it really means that she wants to go around and ride any random dick.


Except yours.

very true

[Omar_MSP]

Halo is making it BETTER!? :eek:

yup, actually i didn't even think bout her all weekend. I didn't even check this thread until someone posted it again so yea it kept me from thinking about my depression.

i'm getting over it, its monday, and so far its been a good monday.

[Omar_MSP]

Dating advice with Dr. Scapegoat:

When someone is "stressing you out" or offends you in some manner, you always have the right to tell them so. If she doesn't apologize for doing either of those things she either doesn't respect you, or doesn't care.

When you walk away it only proves her right and places the power ultimately in her hands every time there is an argument.

ah yea i guess i'm not getting respect from her than. she never apologized about anything so far. and she has offended me because not knowing my situation she thinks shes the center of attention and only bad things are happening to her. i'm like, excuse me everyone has there good and bad days.

scratches name off list